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To Joan Wheeler’s adoption buddies – hi! (lol) August 30, 2010

Posted by Ruth in Announcements and updates, Having Fun with Disfunctionality.
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Your site’s rules do say,
to hold prospective members at bay:
“no defamatory or falsified posts”
shall grace your message boards boasts.

But you let one sinner defame her kin
left and right, again and again.
You believe her version of the “facts”
sucked up in her Academy Award acts.

All I want is the truth be told
and for this, yes, I am bold.
Ask yourself this one query,
With falsehoods on ME, yes, I’d be weary.

Now as to your message so clever,
for my sly visits to sever,
On my “sweet” sister, I will stop spying,
when with her foul mouth she stops her lying.

 For all she has written about me
on YOUR site, for your members to see,
are defamatory, falsehoods-yea, breaking YOUR rules
 for you not to realize this – your’re nothing but fools.

And now I have one more thing to say to thee,
I do have a life, one truly BLESSED without Joan-ie.
And on this fine bright summer morning,
I thumb my nose at her, at you, and at your stupid warning.


Joan Wheeler: shut your lying mouth or PROVE what you say! August 29, 2010

Posted by Ruth in Joan Wheeler's abuse and harassment of her birth family, Refuting Joan Wheelers statements.
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warning: adult content in this post. proceed at YOUR consent. If you don’t like what you see here, you have been warned. Another filthy lie was told about me and my family. No one EVER put their hands on Joan Wheeler, EVER. Only my father, he took her by the shoulder and shoved her out his apartment door. But she says we, her natural family have physically attacked her. Joan, you will burn in hell.

by the way, we’re having a field day with this one over at my facebook page! roflmao! 

ok, I’m pissed.

at an adoption place, Joan Wheeler said on August 25, 2010, the following LIE:

“I’ve been attacked physically and mentally by both adoptive family and natural family for over 3 decades.”

Oh really? WHEN Joan, WHEN did anyone in our family lay hands on you? You f;ing liar. How dare you lie about your family like this?

Tell us, Joan, WHO put their hands on you? WHEN did this happen? Oh, was it when our father took you by the shoulders and shoved you out of his house because you were screaming obscenities at him and he asked you to stop and leave? That is hardly  being physically attacked for over 3 decades!

You want obscenities? You got them – you lying bitch.

3 decades takes us back to 1980 – nope, NOBODY put their hands on you during that time frame – you and I were close – why don’t you talk about that? Do you remember in 1980 we went to see the movie The Awakening together? Being at my house on Amherst St. when you were going with Rich, the Jewish boy? And you were worried that my Arab husband would have a problem? (why must you see and MAKE problems all the time? Abdo could care less what religion or political leanings YOUR boyfriend was/had).

So the past couple of months, I’ve been sick, trying to do this blog – but – BUT no real emotions towards you – just living my life WITHOUT you – then you put this shit on the internet – that your natural family physically abused you for 30 years. And why wasn’t this in your book? BECAUSE IT NEVER HAPPENED. DO YOU PEOPLE SEE HOW JOAN WHEELER MAKES THINGS UP AS SHE GOES ALONG? IF I, OR ANY OTHER FAMILY MEMBER HAD STRUCK HER, IT WOULD HAVE BEEN IN THAT PIECE OF TRASH BOOK SHE WROTE!!!

So, tell us, what did you do when you were hit?  Did you fight back? call 911 and press charges?

bah, you lying filthy pig.

now go and whine to your adoption buddies how I just called you obscenities because you were adopted – no, I called you obscenities  because you, once again, LIED ABOUT MY FAMILY!!

Joan, for the love of god, SHUT THE FUCK UP!


1. RuthAugust 29, 2010 [Edit]

I almost fell off the chair last night when I read that shit. Ain’t NOBODY laid a hand on this bitch, as much as we wanted to. She’s asking for a set of dentures. Let her say that shit to my face. She won’t tho, the lying coward. But then go whining to her adoption buddies that she’s afraid of me.

Be afraid Joan, be very afraid. But not of me – you aren’t worth me going to jail over – you are showing the entire world via the internet what a lying snake you are.

How is this helping your adoption reform work? You are showing all those INTELLIGENT people in that field that you are exactly what you are: a lying bitch.

Your “supporters” are only those with whacked minds like you – sick idiots who promote hate and disrespect towards ANYbody who had a hand in their adoption.
Because THEIR life got fucked up by adoption – they (and Joan) think it’s okay to act like assholes and spew hate at people who had nothing to do with it.

I was 3 years old when Joan got adopted – I had nothing to do with it – but her book is Brenda this, Brenda that (me) and it is all a bunch of lies.

THIS is why Joan is not in my personal photo album – because she’s a lying bitch.

THIS is why Joan got tossed out of the family after the reunion – because she’s a lying bitch.
NOT because of her political and social issues and her work in the adoption reform movement – but because she’s a lying bitch!

2. gert – August 30, 2010 [Edit]

Ruth is correct….no one in the birth family ever laid hands on Joan nor did they mentally attack her! Can’t say the same for the adoptive family.

Joan statement: “I’ve been attacked physically and mentally by both adoptive family and natural family for over 3 decades.” is a total fabrication of Joan’s diseased mind.

Why does Joan have this NEED to continue to convince herself and others that she has been victimized? Joan wrote a damn book telling all about it, shouldn’t that be enough? Not for Joan! She is totally in love with her version of her sick life and she has to tell the world over and over again about how horrible her life has been…in her mind that is!

We here on this blog are in the process of telling the truth…stay tuned…in takes time…Joan has written over 600 pages…I’ve written about 370 of those 600 pages and it takes time to get all that shit on this blog…Joan is nothing but a liar and a professional victim…

It’s too bad that Joan’s friends don’t tell her to get herself some help and get a f…ing life…

Keep reading this blog to hear and see hard evidence of Joan’s abuse to the birth family…stuff that she DID NOT put in the book.

3. chayeletAugust 30, 2010 [Edit]

I didn’t think it was possible to physically attack anyone from 3000 miles away, and since I have not set foot in the USA since I left on 11 March 1973 I’d like to know how it’s possible for me to have attacked Ms Wheeler, if that is what she is alleging.She certainly doesn’t claim physical abuse from me during her 2 visits to UK in her book. As for mental abuse-perception is in the mind of the beholder. If she chooses to misinterpret and misunderstand something I was supposed to have said, that is her choice. So be it. The burden of proof is hers.

4. chayeletAugust 30, 2010 [Edit]

Given the current evidence, I think it is a safe bet that JMW/DMS is now, and has always been, living in The Twilight Zone, otherwise known as Cloud Cuckoo Land. Please do not issue me with a passport to this wondrous place-I prefer the Real World thank you very much.Kathy

5. RuthAugust 30, 2010 [Edit]

I think we can call it “The Joan Wheeler Zone” where Fantasy reigns and Reality is an illusion.

Nothing that Joan says makes any sense.

I am continuously amazed at what garbage comes out of her mouth, and then I am doubly amazed that some people actually BELIEVE it. Especially if they had any brains, they would put two and two together and see the huge holes in Joan’s stories.

I mean – how is it possible for a an ADULT woman to be physically attacked for over 3 decades with no one finding out about it? This, is the first time that she has spoken about this – August 2010!
This information isn’t even in her book!

This is an outspoken woman, who claims to be a follower and advocate of Women’s Rights. WTF?

Come on people! Are you for real? Is Joan for real?

Mark- August 25, 2010 -six weeks from now – October 6. There will be something new coming from The Joan Wheeler Twilight Zone!

Would somebody get this broad some fucking medications????

To Tell the Truth – who lies? Joan Wheeler or The Three Sippel Sisters? August 7, 2010

Posted by Ruth in Black and White Evidence of Joan Wheeler's Lies: Letters, Court Documents, Joan Wheeler's abuse and harassment of her birth family, Lies in the book Forbidden Family, Refuting Joan Wheelers statements.
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I am currently on vacation, but with lots to do. My high school reunion is this weekend, and I’m going to the dinner tonight for that. Then I have plans for things to do. I am working on the companion piece for Gert’s post on Chapter 13 -14 of Forbidden Family. But until I get that post finished and posted, here is something:

I was just listening to an internet podcast from Wednesday, August 4, which featured former Ghosthunter cast member Brian Harnois. Brian and his wife Michelle, who are facebook pals of mine, are currently involved a personal problem involving another former Ghosthunter cast member. Brian started talking about lying and said “Before you take the word of someone, make sure they’re not liars themselves.”

So how can anybody reading this blog tell who is telling the truth about the Sippel family/Joan Wheeler adoption drama? Well, first, unless you shell out up to forty bucks to get Joan’s book, you won’t know what’s in it. But what we are doing, is quoting from the book. And when we don’t quote, we give you an accurate description of what Joan has written in it. Then we give OUR side of the story. For example, when Joan says this or that happened, and it is wrong, we come on the blog and correct it with the truth. Like when Joan has said that I was driving her around in 1974, and I didn’t even learn to drive until 1976, who do you readers believe? Well, in other instances, Joan has said that she has had a one year order of protection against me and gives the dates of August 1, 1993 for the start date, well I’m here to tell you that that is a LIE! The order of protection was for SIX MONTHS and to PROVE this, I scanned and uploaded the actual court document that I have that states that the order of protection went into effect on August 9, 1993 and it was for SIX MONTHS. See the post “Lies in the book Forbidden Family by Joan Wheeler December 18, 2009”

On one page of her book, Joan refers to an email exchange that she and I had early 2004 and says that I had blasted her for airing family dirty laundry on a website that I was building to exchange family photos. ha ha. Well, I had gathered up all the emails between me and her and had forwarded via email to her live in boyfriend at the time. – April 2004 – then printed them out! I scanned the pages and posted them right here on this blog. The pages have the actual date and time that I printed this out. If you read them, there is not ONE mention of “airing dirty laundry.” See the post “an email exchange of March 31, 2004 December 14, 2009”

Joan will keep telling people that I am “harassing her and interfering with her life.” But does she ever say EXACTLY what I do? When I blog that Joan has harassed ME and interfered with MY life, I have told EXACTLY what she has done, like writing letters to my then fiance, now husband John, telling him to leave me. And sending those letters to his mother’s house. And to back up what I say, I give the proof right here on this blog – the actual scanned and uploaded copies of the letter, and the envelope! see the post “Forbidden Family, by Joan Wheeler pages 316, 324, and 330 Clear evidence of lies December 23, 2009”

Ask Joan for her “proof.” She has none! Ask the Three Sippel Sisters for our proof – we have plenty! Some is yet to come. Some in the form of more written material – more actual letters written by Joan herself – and we have a real big surprise email from someone that will knock your socks off! stay tuned!

excerpts from the post about the order of protection, which includes actual scanned court documents to prove that Joan Wheeler is a liar:

Joan relates in her book that it was February 1993 when she took to me court for these phone calls. WRONG! She signed the complaint on July 9th, 1993. We went to court and I was railroaded. They had me for the 3 calls I made on June 21. Joan was given a restraining order against me effective August 9, 1993 to February 9, 1994. FOR A TOTAL OF SIX MONTHS! Yet on page 316, she LIES and says it was for one year.
On page 323 in her book of lies, she tells a story of her moving on August 1, 1993. She relates how I violated the order of protection and came to her house. LIE! The restraining order was not in effect until August 9.

Here is the complaint that Joan signed on July 9, 1993

and, yes, if you go to that post, you can see the actual court document with Joan’s signature on the complaint next to the date of July 9, 1993. And her complaint was for “annoyance” phone calls she received in JUNE 1993. So why does she say she made the complaint in FEBRUARY 1993? To add several months onto the order of protection – to stretch it out from it’s actual SIX MONTHS duration to her saying that it was for one year. CLEAR EVIDENCE THAT JOAN M. WHEELER IS A LIAR IN HER BOOK FORBIDDEN FAMILY. – unless she was psychic and foretold the future. Perhaps she consulted a crystal ball and was told that I would be calling her in June 1993, so she wanted to do pre-emptive strike. Why wait until the calls are made? File the complaint months in advance!

Adoption reform people – is THIS the kind of person YOU want representing you or your cause? Someone who WILL NOT tell the truth about her very own birth sister? If she could lie about her own blood kin, she can lie about anyone, and she has. And she can lie about YOU!

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