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Another comment by another idiot who didn’t take the time to READ before commenting July 11, 2011

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by Ruth Pace

Someone named Jennifer Willett left this interesting silly comment the other day, and as usual, the writer, can’t see the forest for the trees. By the way, she’s probably another supporter of Joan, but as usual, her supporters can’t write logical defenses of Joan, but just illogical attacks on me.

Comment:
This entire blog has a “hysterical” tone throughout. The righteous indignation sounds false to me. Over kill in other words. The threats, the sheer commitment of time and energy to all this negativity amazes me. If I may make a small suggestion, give all this a rest. Calm down a little. This negative energy can’t be healthy, even if a portion of what you say is true. Yet, you seemed unable to stop stirring this toxic soup you have created and are continuing to breath the unhealthy steam.

Well, Jennifer, may I make a small suggestion, given the fact that YOU are supposed to be a “writing and editing professional?” Why don’t YOU take the time to read Joan’s slander-filled book, then read the actual court documents that I have posted here on this blog that prove that Joan has slandered and libeled me.

My righteous indignation sounds false to you? Excuse me – did you even READ the sticky home page of this blog? Go and read her book. She says in her book that I, Ruth Pace have an arrest and criminal record – WHEN I HAVE NEVER BEEN ARRESTED IN MY LIFE!

That is not false, that is FACT!

Jennifer, you say “threats?” What threats? Where have I threatened Joan? Again, we see another illogical comment, containing garbage. Sounds like a little bit of righteous indignation and overkill to me to say this blog contains threats when it does not. And by the way, WE didn’t create the soup – it was Joan. I see this “professional” writer and editor didn’t do her homework. I didn’t write and publish the book, Jennifer, JOAN did. Are you that blind?

As a professional writer and editor, it your JOB to see that slander and libel do NOT take place. And when it does, there is fallout. The fallout from Joan’s slander is this blog. If you, Ms. Willett, do not like this blog, then by all means, don’t read it. If you think I am toxic, then by all means avoid my toxicity. As for my time, it is mine. Ask yourself why are YOU taking the time to comment on a blog that is soooo toxic to you.

Joan Wheeler is a bully in real life and in cyberspace. Joan has bullied me for 30 years. I am standing up to the bully and shedding light on the bully’s deeds. If you Jennifer, don’t like that, then you are as bad as the bully.

But seeing as you are just one Joan’s buddies, sliding on over here to defend her, (by attacking me), then you really should do your research on her. Because as a “writer and editing” professional, writing for gays and lesbians, you should know what Joan REALLY thinks of gays. On the Adult Adoptee forum, she commented that the gay community should “go back to their corner where they belong.”

If you, Ms. Willett, are truly a writing and editing professional, I think you are doing a very poor job in research. If you think what I put on this blog is false, you obviously didn’t look at the court documents I have plastered all over this blog.

I think you need to seek a new profession, because any writer/editor worth their salt knows that RESEARCH is the key to writing non-fiction. And RESEARCHING a topic is necessary before opening your mouth and commenting on it.

Bottom line sweetie, this is MY blog. My web-space. I will put on it what I want. Ciao!

1. Gert McQueen – July 11, 2011
Gert here:
Okay…perhaps we get a bit hysterical at times…but when you are the victim of the slander, libel, rage and hate that Joan Wheeler has dished out to you, perhaps you too would be a bit hysterical! If you have not been the target of Joan’s hate, rage and violence than you REALLY don’t have a clue. If your life has not been misrepresented, as Joan Wheeler has done to our lives, then you really can’t have a clue.

You think that we have righteous indignation and it all sounds false to you and that it is over kill!
Have YOU read Joan Wheeler’s two web blogs of threats, negativity and down right hate towards us? Give it a rest you say? NOT until Joan Wheeler takes down the two web pages in which she slanders, libels, lies and THREATENS us!

As far as the commitment of time and energy is concerned, I wouldn’t worry so much about our time and energy. Joan Wheeler has spent 35 plus YEARS doing the deeds and then writing about those deeds as she lies about us. So I guess we can spend some time and energy setting the record straight…NOW that we sisters have PROVEN that the book contains libelous materials. It wasn’t until that book of lies of Joan Wheeler’s was published, less than 2 years ago, did I know about all the shit, crap, lies, and other things that she did again to me and over and over again to others. I have NOT stirred any toxic soup. It WAS AND ALWAYS HAS BEEN Joan Wheeler who did that stirring ALL OF HER LIFE and recently by publishing that BOOK and by keeping TWO WEB BLOGS AGAINST US.

People who live in glass houses should not throw stones! And believe me, Joan Wheeler’s glass house is crashing down around her, that is why she is enlisting others to try to stop us. No we shall continue to show every lie that she published, we shall continue to expose every misrepresentation that she utters UNTIL she removes the TWO BLOGS. I shall CONTINUE to monitor every thing that Joan speaks, everywhere I find it! So, I suggest that YOU go to Joan and give her your dose of self-righteous indignation about all the time and energy she is wasting stirring all the hysterical false toxic soup that SHE created! Bubble bubble toil and trouble!

So sorry Jennifer, Joan and anyone else…you shall continue to hear from us about each and every word and deed that she has done to us and others. Joan WANTED everyone in the world to know all about her life and NOW they shall know it, from the sisters she slandered! Joan Wheeler is a dangerous person and UNTIL she takes down the two web site AGAINST US no one else ought to tell us what to do…tell Joan Wheeler to give it a rest…Joan…take down the web sites!

 

2. Ruth – July 12, 2011

http://cyberbulliesstalkers.blogspot.com/  — is the ridiculous lie-filled propaganda blogpost by Joan wherein she lists such lies about Gert, Kathy and myelf.
If Ms. Willett is genuinely interested in getting this pot of soup off the stove, she would do well to get Joan to take down that slanderous blog.
There are such hate-filled statements on that blog. Twisted facts, things from left field that I have to wonder what goes on in Joan’s mind.
for example, she says she has had an Order of Protection on me from the 1980′s. but this is a blatant contradiction of what she says in her book. The only Order of Protection she had on me was from August 9, 1993 to Feb. 9, 1994. She says that I called child abuse on her – I did not – and she says that it resulted in “months of court appearances.” WRONG! In 1995, she sent me copies of mail that SHE had been sending to elected officials, and in Feb. 1995, I took HER to court – which had THREE different court dates – her initial appearance, the actual appearance, then the judge adjourned it to another day, at which time, the judge dismissed the whole thing. Yeah – three DAYS in court gets turned into three MONTHS.
Joan says that I got her phone number from my father – yes I did. On November 3, 2009 – because my then 85 year old father was tired and I calledJoan AS A FAVOR to tell her that a family member died. On the phone Joan subjected me to a barrage of yelling obscentities that even her daughter (who in an email exchange via myspace the next day, came running down the stairs to see what her mother was screaming about).
Joan twists everything around to make me and Gert sound like we are devils and she is an angel. This is what we are writing on this blog about. And that is why people need to do their research.
I am quite certain that Joan has told Ms. Willett such horror stories in person about her mean and nasty birth sisters. And I guarentee that she has whitewashed out any of her own misdeeds.
Ms. Willett, I have posted actual court documents – from the Buffalo City Court and Family Court that prove without a doubt the actual court proceedings between Joan and myself. They are here on this blog – they prove who is putting forth falsehoods and twisted lies on the internet.
Joan has also gone on The Huffington Post in March 2011 to say that my grandfather sexually molested me as a child. WTF? Joan was adopted out of our family in January 1957 – she was an infant. – I lived with my grandparents circa 1958-59. My grandfather never touched me – WHERE DOES JOAN GET OFF SAYING THIS STUFF ON THE INTERNET ABOUT A MAN WHO DIED IN 1959, CANNOT DEFEND HIMSELF AND JOAN NEVER MET – AND WHERE IS THIS STUFF COMING FROM?
Now Ms. Willett – I suggest you take your concerns about toxic soup to the person who put the pot on the stove – JOAN MARY WHEELER.

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1. Gert McQueen - July 11, 2011

Gert here:
Okay…perhaps we get a bit hysterical at times…but when you are the victim of the slander, libel, rage and hate that Joan Wheeler has dished out to you, perhaps you too would be a bit hysterical! If you have not been the target of Joan’s hate, rage and violence than you REALLY don’t have a clue. If your life has not been misrepresented, as Joan Wheeler has done to our lives, then you really can’t have a clue.

You think that we have righteous indignation and it all sounds false to you and that it is over kill!
Have YOU read Joan Wheeler’s two web blogs of threats, negativity and down right hate towards us? Give it a rest you say? NOT until Joan Wheeler takes down the two web pages in which she slanders, libels, lies and THREATENS us!

As far as the commitment of time and energy is concerned, I wouldn’t worry so much about our time and energy. Joan Wheeler has spent 35 plus YEARS doing the deeds and then writing about those deeds as she lies about us. So I guess we can spend some time and energy setting the record straight…NOW that we sisters have PROVEN that the book contains libelous materials. It wasn’t until that book of lies of Joan Wheeler’s was published, less than 2 years ago, did I know about all the shit, crap, lies, and other things that she did again to me and over and over again to others. I have NOT stirred any toxic soup. It WAS AND ALWAYS HAS BEEN Joan Wheeler who did that stirring ALL OF HER LIFE and recently by publishing that BOOK and by keeping TWO WEB BLOGS AGAINST US.

People who live in glass houses should not throw stones! And believe me, Joan Wheeler’s glass house is crashing down around her, that is why she is enlisting others to try to stop us. No we shall continue to show every lie that she published, we shall continue to expose every misrepresentation that she utters UNTIL she removes the TWO BLOGS. I shall CONTINUE to monitor every thing that Joan speaks, everywhere I find it! So, I suggest that YOU go to Joan and give her your dose of self-righteous indignation about all the time and energy she is wasting stirring all the hysterical false toxic soup that SHE created! Bubble bubble toil and trouble!

So sorry Jennifer, Joan and anyone else…you shall continue to hear from us about each and every word and deed that she has done to us and others. Joan WANTED everyone in the world to know all about her life and NOW they shall know it, from the sisters she slandered! Joan Wheeler is a dangerous person and UNTIL she takes down the two web site AGAINST US no one else ought to tell us what to do…tell Joan Wheeler to give it a rest…Joan…take down the web sites!

2. Ruth - July 12, 2011

http://cyberbulliesstalkers.blogspot.com/
is the ridiculous lie-filled propaganda blogpost by Joan wherein she lists such lies about Gert, Kathy and myelf.
If Ms. Willett is genuinely interested in getting this pot of soup off the stove, she would do well to get Joan to take down that slanderous blog.
There are such hate-filled statements on that blog. Twisted facts, things from left field that I have to wonder what goes on in Joan’s mind.
for example, she says she has had an Order of Protection on me from the 1980’s. but this is a blatant contradiction of what she says in her book. The only Order of Protection she had on me was from August 9, 1993 to Feb. 9, 1994. She says that I called child abuse on her – I did not – and she says that it resulted in “months of court appearances.” WRONG! In 1995, she sent me copies of mail that SHE had been sending to elected officials, and in Feb. 1995, I took HER to court – which had THREE different court dates – her initial appearance, the actual appearance, then the judge adjourned it to another day, at which time, the judge dismissed the whole thing. Yeah – three DAYS in court gets turned into three MONTHS.
Joan says that I got her phone number from my father – yes I did. On November 3, 2009 – because my then 85 year old father was tired and I calledJoan AS A FAVOR to tell her that a family member died. On the phone Joan subjected me to a barrage of yelling obscentities that even her daughter (who in an email exchange via myspace the next day, came running down the stairs to see what her mother was screaming about).
Joan twists everything around to make me and Gert sound like we are devils and she is an angel. This is what we are writing on this blog about. And that is why people need to do their research.
I am quite certain that Joan has told Ms. Willett such horror stories in person about her mean and nasty birth sisters. And I guarentee that she has whitewashed out any of her own misdeeds.
Ms. Willett, I have posted actual court documents – from the Buffalo City Court and Family Court that prove without a doubt the actual court proceedings between Joan and myself. They are here on this blog – they prove who is putting forth falsehoods and twisted lies on the internet.
Joan has also gone on The Huffington Post in March 2011 to say that my grandfather sexually molested me as a child. WTF? Joan was adopted out of our family in January 1957 – she was an infant. – I lived with my grandparents circa 1958-59. My grandfather never touched me – WHERE DOES JOAN GET OFF SAYING THIS STUFF ON THE INTERNET ABOUT A MAN WHO DIED IN 1959, CANNOT DEFEND HIMSELF AND JOAN NEVER MET – AND WHERE IS THIS STUFF COMING FROM?
Now Ms. Willett – I suggest you take your concerns about toxic soup to the person who put the pot on the stove – JOAN MARY WHEELER.


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