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RE: Joan Wheeler (Forbidden Family) – The Truth is Out There. And we have brought it forth. August 31, 2012

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We have used actual court documents that prove the truth.

NOTE see end of this post for update

We have used actual handwritten letters – written by Joan Wheeler herself.

These documents have been scanned and posted on this blog.

They are undeniable.

Who so ever denies the truth that is revealed by these documents is an idiot.

How does one explain the discrepency between what is written in a libelous book and websites, and an actual Buffalo City Court document? If the person REFUSES to explain the difference, yet continues to scream and rant that the libelous book told the truth – that person cannot be called rational. If their friend takes the same postion and performs the same actions (refusing to explain the difference, and continues to promote a proven lie as truth), that person is also NOT RATIONAL.

Two plus two equals 4. That is the Truth. No amount of neurotic attempts to change it to equal 5 will ever work. Facts are facts.

Joan Wheeler lied in her book Forbidden Family. I have posted actual Buffalo City Court documents on this blog that irrefutibly proves this. No amount of neurotic attempts to change it will succeed.

Also: anybody who says it is Joan Wheeler’s “point of view” that certain things happened the way she reports in her book, is also being irrational.

Again, 2 + 2 equals 4. That is a FACT! Having a “point of view” that 2 plus 2 equals 5 is erroneous, delusional and irrational.

Having a point of view that an order of protection was for the duration of one year, when in reality it was for six months, is erroneous, delusional and irrational. Refusing to acknowledge the actual Buffalo City Court document that states a judges decree of SIX MONTHS, is erroneous, delusional and irrational. To keep insisting that such order of protection was for one year, is the sign of an irrational lie. For a friend to keep insisting that Joan is NOT  lying, is a sign that that friend is also irrational. For the friend to REFUSE to also acknowledge an actual document from a City of Buffalo Court, and signed by a City Court Judge shows us that that friend is indeed irrational. Further, for the friend to state that I, who was the recepient of court order, and who scanned the document and posted it to this blog, has mental problmes because I am presenting the cold hard facts, shows us that this friend is the one with mental problems. Because I have only presented a court document. If I, Ruth, have mental problems because I believe what is written on the court document, then the entire judicial system in the city of Buffalo is also flawed, the prosecuters, lawyers, clerks, warrant officers, bailiffs and judges all have mental problems. This is a clear sign of irrationality for ANYone, be it a personal friend of Joan Wheeler or internet supporters. If ANYone says that an actual court document is NOT the truth, but the irrational claims of a person who readily admits that she is having mental problems and has been in therapy for more 30 years, IS the truth (or her point of view) shows that they themselves are NOT rational.

The Truth WAS out there – it is now here – on this blog, on my sister Gert’s blog. No amount of irrational ranting by Joan Wheeler or her buddy Brian T. Maloney will change that. No amount of harassing bullying and name calling and judgments on my life, my career, my personal choices in food, entertainment, or recreational activities will ever change me, or my mission:

TO TAKE A LIE THAT JOAN WHEELER HAS PUT FORTH IN HER BOOK, REFUTE THAT LIE, AND PLACE IT ON THIS BLOG.

UPDATE MAY 2016; as older posts are being seen I’m updating with links to my second blog and a Facebook page wherein I expose AGAIN the lies, fabrications and hate that Joan M Wheeler says about me and family. After the first book was pulled from publication by the publisher, May 2011, she has ‘self-published’ another ‘revised’ version. This woman has no shame no sense of family honor!

https://gertmcqueen2.wordpress.com/

https://www.facebook.com/dupedbyadoption1

https://ruthsippelpace.wordpress.com/2016/05/12/joan-mary-wheeler-has-legally-changed-her-name-to-doris-michol-sippel/

 

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A lovely Friday evening awaits me, as I leave idiots behind in my dust! August 31, 2012

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Enlisting other people to harass us, Joan Wheeler has other people to do her dirty work. I don’t care – I keep on blogging! I don’t know what he thinks he has accomplished. I’m still here, still blogging my truth about MY life. If he doesn’t like my life or what I have to say, he can stuff it. I don’t care. If he thinks that he is such an important person in my life then he is really delusional. His little rants haven’t changed a dam thing.

However, even a Champion of Truth such as I, must take a break. Dinner with my wonderful husband, later – will enjoy the Full Moon. Ghost Adventures and Dead Files on Sci-Fi channel tonight. A nice Friday evening into overnight awaits.

Blood doesn’t always mean family – something Joan Wheeler needs to accept August 31, 2012

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See end of post for update….So – answer me this: WHY after Gert and I went through all the trouble of searching for our adopted-out younger sister, go through a reunion with her, only to ask her to leave us alone just 6 years later?

Joan will tell you it’s because we tried to mold her into what we thought she would be, should be. There may be some truth in that – when we searched for our sister – that’s what we thought we’d be getting – our sister. We expected a person who some morals and values. What we got was a person who interfered with our lives, our life decisions, manipulated people into fighting, twisting words, lying to and about us, stealing from us, harassing us, calling our jobs for the sole purpose of getting us fired, calling law enforcement and filing false reports, sending harassing letters to our spouses to break up relationships, arguing with us.

Joan Wheeler continuously whines that her birth family never took the time to understand her. Did she ever take the time to understand US? Did she EVER sit down and simply accept US? – NO! She had to find fault with everything – she didn’t like this, she didn’t like that – if we didn’t jump to her every whim, we were branded as not being supportive of HER! – Where was her support for US?

As for trust – would you trust someone who steals? Hell no. Why then should we trust her? So, yeah, she was asked to leave the family. Not just by Gert or Ruth, but by our other sister, our brother, our father, our cousins, our aunts and uncles. Family members of our father’s second wife. Even Joan’s own friends and family and acquaintances were running the hell away from her.

There’s something wrong somewhere when ONE person is continuously in fights with someone else!

Constantly fighting with her adoptive parents. In an abusive relationship with a college boyfriend. Fighting with another tenant in her very first apartment building – at the top of stairs – engaged in a shoving match over Tupperware. Fighting with her landlords over unpaid rent in the apartment she lived in when she had first child. Fighting with her landlords over unpaid rent in the house she lived in while married. Fighting with her husband. Fighting with an ex-boyfriend that she moved in after leaving her husband. Fighting and screaming with her adoptive mother, her kids, this boyfriend and that boyfriend. Fighting with her college professors, her classmates in college while studying social work. FIGHTING FIGHTING FIGHTING –  That’s all Joan knows how to do – argue and fight. bitch bitch bitch.

I couldn’t go anywhere with her without hearing her mouth bitching about something or someone. Shut up already! After she stole hundreds of dollars from, and disrespecting me – I kicked her out of my life.

But she can’t and won’t accept responsibility for the consequences of her actions. It isn’t HER fault I got mad at her – it’s mine. (HUH?)

THEN she writes a book that contains lie after lie about me.

So I’m supposed to view her as family? I don’t think so. She ain’t my family. And her latest deluded puppet seems to think there could be some sort of agreement or peace between us! What the f planet is he from?

Hey Brian – if you think so much of Joan – why don’t YOU take her in as YOUR family? Why don’t you marry her? And take care of her. If Joan needs so much care and love and attention – and you’re her knight in shining armor (Champ?) then I say: “Go for it!” – maybe you’ll get your shirts ironed too in the process. A mutually satisfying relationship.

There is no mutual satisfaction in any relationship that Joan has had with us. We don’t want her. We give her to you Brian. Have fun.

gertmcqueen

100% correct! and I may add that when Joan decided that SHE KNEW what was best for my marriage and children, going behind my back to alienate my minor children, telling me I was WRONG to adopt my own child, and then called 2 child abuse reports on me…that is when she ceased to be any FAMILY to me. Three times since then 1981, I attempted to reconcile only to have her backstab me 3 more times. THEN, she wrote a lying book wherein she further added malicious misrepresentations of myself, husbands, finace, and children.

and you think that we have NO RIGHT TO EXPOSE her? And anyone who acts against us, in Joan Wheeler’s name, is just as bad. Brian Maloney has proven that he is just like Joan. Even to attack me on the familycircle, under your name of pilgrim, to browbeat and insult me over my ADOPTION OF MY SON. Who the hell do you think you are Brian? You get all your information from Joan…not a sound source.

Why don’t you Brian, take full charge of Joan, she obviously needs a caretaker and you are a SELF-PROCLAIMED defender of hers! Seems that it’s a match made in your kind of heaven.

UPDATE December 2016; as older posts are being seen I, Gert am updating with links to my second blog and a Facebook page wherein I expose AGAIN the lies, fabrications and hate that Joan M Wheeler (Doris Michol Sippel) says about me and family. The first book Forbidden Family, A Half Orphan’s Account of Her Adoption, Reunion and Social Activism‘ was published in 2009 but then was pulled from publication by the publisher in May 2011, for libelous material within the book. Then in 2015, she ‘self-published’ a ‘revised’ version calling it ‘Forbidden Family, an adoptee duped by adoption’. This woman has no shame no sense of family honor! Then in 2016 Joan changed her name back to her birth name and rewrote and republished the SAME crap in another book; a Third edition! CALLED ‘Forbidden Family: An Adopted Woman’s Struggle for Identity’! Talk about conning people!

https://gertmcqueen2.wordpress.com/

this blog’s title/sub title is… DUPED BY ADOPTION & AN WOMAN’S STRUGGLE FOR IDENTITY, A BOOK STUDY an in-depth analyzes of the books called Forbidden Family; My Life as an Adoptee Duped by adoption & An Adopted Woman’s Struggle for Identity by Joan M Wheeler/Doris M Sippel.

https://www.facebook.com/dupedbyadoptionStruggleforIdentity1/

 

Brian Maloney’s newest nonsense August 31, 2012

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reposting from

by  on August 30, 2012

some people really haven’t a clue about how stupid they are

here is Joan Wheeler’s champ…speaking his bullying bullshit and my comment

 

ChampAugust 30, 2012 1:26 PM

I re-read the Buffalo News article mentioned by Gertie, and if anyone considers what I wrote there to be an “attack”, I would suggest that they should get a thicker skin. I merely suggested they seek counseling. Again, neither of Joan’s sisters have addressed the points I made in this posting. Why? because they are unable to do so. Gertie, you did write a rather unflattering view of my ex-wife’s store. What did she ever do to you to make you want to try to destroy her business? You surely did research to find out who the owner was, didn’t you? If not, you just attacked and bullied and abused someone out of mean-spiritedness who has nothing whatsoever to do with either of us, andwho has no idea who Joan is. And you have the unmittigated gall to call ME a bully and abuser? If you want to know what a bully and abuser really is, just look in the mirror and/or visit Ruthie. She says I dress like po’ white trash without having even met me. I’ve no idea how SHE dresses, and I don’t care, but from her writing, it’s easy to see who it is that her description of me fits, and it’s not, in fact me at all. She is simply to obtuse to see that the term describes her writing and attitude. All I can do is hope you both eventually see that you need counseling as badly as Joan, and you both find peace in your lives.

Gert’s comment…

Brian…this is Gert speaking that is the name I go by and I request that you HONOR that, if you continue to insult me by using a name that Joan told you to use than you are still an abuser who insults women because you think we are nothing. I assure you that I mean business Brian Maloney; my name is GERT, not gertie. Get that! I am not Ruth. You, Brian continue to confuse us, we are different people who speak for themselves and are not responsible for what the other says or does.

Yes, what you wrote on the Buffalo site was indeed an attack, if you can’t see that, that is your problem, stop playing stupid. Who the hell are you to suggest to people, that you don’t know, that they need counseling? On the advice of Joan Wheeler? Sorry, that means nothing, she’s a real sick puppy. The mere fact that you wrote in such a matter, on that site, only proves your own worthlessness.

We are under no obligation to answer anything to you, or to Joan. You are nothing to us, go away, your continued postings only prove that you are a bully and a harasser. We have warned you for over 4 months. I think it’s about time that the POLICE are told about you. You have ceased to be any ‘defender’ and have shown yourself to be an abuser, to women you don’t know…times up

 

Gert has shared this on twitter and on stumbed upon

 

What in the world is Blue Plague? August 30, 2012

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There is a website out there called The Blue Plague. I haven’t looked at everything there. I couldn’t get past the first page. Such dribble. And with glaring mistakes! Give a lookee:

  The Blue Plague is a devastating illness attacking children. Some say it is being deliberately spread by The U, S, Gov.

Perhaps a possibility, or perhaps it may be accidental.

People in all states have been involved in its spreading

This website is to inform, stop the plague, and save children.

WHAT IS THE BLUE PLAGUE AND WHERE DID IT COME FROM?

Inbreeding with close blood relatives causes mental problems in children going down blood lines

Inbreeding Egyptian Pharos kept power in their families. Egypt collapsed from within do to mental handicaps in Dynasty families. The knowledge of it all “Was Hidden.”

Roman Rulers copied Egyptian inbreeding to keep control within their families. The Roman rulers became damaged, Roam Fell, Knowledge “Was Hidden.”

European Monarchs copied the Roman inbreeding practices. Children were born dead blue. Which is where the term “Blue Blood” came from. The knowledge “Was Hidden.”

Collapsing governments caused the Dark Ages. Lords, “Bestowed Their Gifts” into peasant brides. Resulting children went by peasant names, that did not match their true blood lines. Inbreeding ran ramped, hence the term, “Mad Dogs and Englishmen.”

The Blue Plague is coming to America. Southern Plantation Masters copied the Lords Sport. The Plague was contained within slave quarters, as in European Places, and “Hidden.”

The Civil War freed the slaves, and The Blue Plague spread throughout America.

Mormon’s fathered towns, The Plague spread through children’s limited mating choices

The Orphan Train changed children’s names, causing unknown interbreeding.

Using The Orphan Train as the example, The U. S. Gov. created The Uniform Adoption Act mandating adoptee’s birth records be sealed. The Blue Plague spread.

I see no conspiracy, just ignorance from “Hiding Knowledge” to avoid embarrassment, leading to nearly two hundred years of entrapping all on a path to destruction.  

So I left this comment: Knowledge should be exposed. yes – so I am sharing knowledge with you – “do” to? – that should be “due” Rome is not spelled Roam – U, S, – use periods, not commas. When the Southern plantation owners bred with the slaves, they actually introduced NEW (African) genes into the white gene pool – so that blows your theory away.  your last sentance contradicts your entire post – “two hundred years” – when you previously stated it happened thousands of years ago. If you want to be taken seriously, write your essay seriously. By the way, Blue Babies are blue because their lungs are not developed and they are lacking oxygen. It has nothing to do with their mental capabilites. It is called hypoxic.

Honestly, if people want to be taken seriously, they really should present their material in a serious way. Perhaps he was watching the Smurf’s episode “The Blue Plague.” – Ever notice that there is only ONE female Smurf? ONE FEMALE TO DO ALL THE BREEDING! Talk about inbreeding!  

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notice to Brian T. Maloney and Joan M. Wheeler for legal purposes August 30, 2012

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better learn this lesson Brian and get the fuck out of MY life and MY business and MY family’s business. JOAN WHEELER IS NOT A LEGAL MEMBER OF MY FAMILY – IF I WANT HER OUT OF MY LIFE – THAN I HAVE THAT RIGHT. I HAVE THE RIGHT TO REQUEST THAT BRIAN T. MALONEY GET OUT OF MY LIFE AS WELL AND STOP CYBERSTALKING AND BULLYING ME!

this is going to look good in a police report Brian – keep that in mind. FOR THE RECORD: I, RUTH B. PACE, HAVE NEVER MET BRIAN T. MALONEY IN MY LIFE. I NEVER HEARD OF HIM UNTIL THE SUMMER OF 2012. BRIAN T. MALONEY, AT THE REQUEST OF JOAN WHEELER, STARTED CYBERSTALKING AND CYBERHARASSING ME AND MY SISTER GERT MCQUEEN IN DECEMBER 2011. USING DIFFEREN SCREENNAMES OF PILGRIM 1013 AND CHAMP. HE ALSO STARTED A BLOG IN WHICH HE HAS BEEN CALLING US NAMES AND BERATING US. I HAVE TAKEN SCREENSHOTS OF HIS CYBER ABUSE AND POSTED ONLY SOME OF THEM ON THIS BLOG.  WE HAVE REPEATEDLY ASKED AND DIRECTED BRIAN T. MALONEY TO LEAVE US ALONE – HE REFUSES. HE LEAVES ME NO CHOICE – I WILL DO WHAT I MUST TO GET THIS CYBER-BULLY OUT OF MY LIFE. – I HAVE ALREADY TAKEN ONE STEP THE OTHER DAY.

YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED BRIAN –

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Bad decisions, bad choices – who is to blame when someone makes them? August 30, 2012

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Who is to blame? Why the person who made them! If you chose to tell a lie, and that lie gets exposed – you don’t get to turn around and blame the other person. Be a Woman or a Man and own up to YOUR bad decisions and bad choices.

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UPDATE January 2016; as older posts are being seen I’m updating with links to my second blog and a Facebook page wherein I expose AGAIN the lies, fabrications and hate that Joan M Wheeler says about me and family. After the first book was pulled from publication by the publisher, May 2011, she has ‘self-published’ yet again, her ‘story’, NOW called ‘duped by adoption’. There is NOTHING in it for adoption reform, for she is totally against adoption and her two families. To learn more see…

https://gertmcqueen2.wordpress.com/

https://www.facebook.com/dupedbyadoption1

a revised (slightly) version of my poem about Isabella August 29, 2012

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In my post candle light vigil for a little girl held in Cheektowaga, Tuesday night, August 28, 2012 – a report on the vigil I attended for the 5 year old girl beaten to death by a 16 year old punk, I included a poem I wrote. I want to change my poem a little bit here’s the original:

Isabella, Isabella, an angel now you are. I’ve given you a magical unicorn to take you near and far.

Chocolate chip cookies will be your daily fare with stardust and fairydust trailing from your hair.  

Up in heaven you now live, to be with you, all that Crystal has, she would give.

It was Bella’s time you see, A lesson to be learned by our whole community.  

Children are killing children, by guns, by hands. Reverence for Life is what we all must understand.

Okay, here is my revision, and I think the cadence is a bit better.

 

Isabella, Isabella, an angel now you are. I’ve given you a magic unicorn to take you near and far.

Chocolate chip cookies will be your daily fare with stardust and fairydust trailing from your hair.  

Up in heaven you now live, to be with you, all that Crystal has, she would gladly give.

It was Bella’s time you see, A lesson to be learned by our whole community.  

Children are killing children, by guns, by hands. Reverence for Life is what we all must now understand.

I guess a college professor who complimented my essay is uneducated too? right Brian? August 29, 2012

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Joan’s buddy Brian Maloney says that I am uneducated. oh? This essay, that I wrote was read by Egyptologist Bob Brier of Long Island University and host of The Great Egyptians on the Discovery Channel and Prof. Brier wrote me a letter and said I did a great job. go stuff it Brian!

Selket – one of the loveliest treasures from the tomb of Tutanakhamun. I saw the tour in 1978 in Chicago and in Toronto in 1979.

click here to see my essay: Egyptian Goddess Selket 

Blue plague? smurfs or andorians? August 29, 2012

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Joan Wheeler has a new passion – a website that promotes nonsense called Blue Plague –

I wouldn’t mind blueness from sexy Commander Shran or his alter ego Jeffrey Combs.

 

Updated list of blog posts pertaining to cyberstalker and cybercreep Brian T. Maloney of Williamsville. August 29, 2012

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Brian T. Maloney, LION of Williamsville, you, who claim to be a Reiki “master” – the following blog posts are all about you. Until you remove that abusive blog you have against us and offer a public apology to us for sticking your nose where it don’t belong – in MY family’s business and trashing my father after he was dead – these blog posts will remain in existence for all the world to see.

What you need to do is delete ALL posts from your blog – and leave ONE post up recanting all the abuse you heaped on me and Gert – particularly where you called us dogs. And don’t try to squirm your way out of it by saying you were quoting an old adage – “if you lay down with dogs, expect to catch fleas.” – This was directed to a person who supports our blogs and left a comment on your blog. So, no, you didn’t come right out and SAY Gert and me were dogs – but by telling Paula that she was associating with us, she would catch fleas – in essence you WERE calling us dogs. And that doubles your mistake – you not only called women you never met – dogs – but then tried to twist your words and tried to LIE your way out of it. – That doesn’t go very well with your Reiki healing.

Also, you need to change the name of your blog from “Defending Joan Wheeler” to “No longer defending Joan Wheeler.” And in that one post you keep up on your blog you tell WHY you no longer are defending her – because once she found out in November 2011 just who your father was and how your father was the lawyer who handled my father’s adoption of his stepdaughter, Joan kept that from you and whined at you and got you to do her dirty work. She played you for a fool – as a revenge at that dirty lawyer who handled my stepsister’s adoption.

Admit your mistake Brian. But I know you won’t. Because it takes a big man, a big person to admit when they’re wrong. And you are no man. You are a wimp, a coward and a creep.

So here are some blog posts about Brian T. Maloney. and before anybody takes me to task for writing so much about this creep – remember – I knew his father, his father was a long time attorney and friend of my father and stepmother. In representing my family, I left a condolence message on an online memorial guest book when Brian’s father, Arthur J. Maloney died on November 16, 2011. I never met Brian. I don’t know him. But one month after his father died, Brian started cyber stalking and cyber-harassing and cyber-bullying me and Gert. He should have minded his own business. He brought this on himself.

Hey Champ!! (Brian T. Maloney of Williamsville, NY) Where’s your response to our rebuttals, to your defense of Joan Wheeler, on the Buffalo News web site?

How Brian T. Maloney of Williamsville, NY trashed my LATE father on the internet – what he said about a dead man that he never met

Champ, the so called defender of Joan Wheeler, is slacking on the job!! …

Brian Maloney and Joan Wheeler think they are in the right…okay they can have their delusion

I’m putting the brat Brian to bed and ignoring his temper tantrums – because that’s how you deal with brats – give them NO more attention.

Charlatans can be found everywhere and in every field of healing Brian isn’t the only one.

Brian T. Maloney has been exposed in a new comment that I placed on that Buffalo News article by Joan Wheeler (with a screenshot of his blog – proving how he abused and bullied us)

Brian T. Maloney is concerned for my health. aw gee. (my rebuttal after Brian insinuates that I am on psych meds – which I am not, never have been and don’t need to. Another example of his abuse of me.

Brian T. Maloney can’t do any Reiki healing on anyone – because he’s a damaged individual in need of healing himself. – with graphics from Linkedin where Joan and Brian recomended each other on November 11, 2011.

rampaging on facebook – funny? – not so funny when you find out you’ve been trashed by the son of someone you honored – Brian T. Maloney is no healer – he’s a menace!

Fun and games on Facebook – re: The Nameless One (aka Joan Wheeler) and Brian “Chimp” Maloney (full of baloney)

What did Joan Wheeler know of the connection of Brian T. Maloney’s father to my father, when did she know it, and I expose another lie in her libelous book

Brian T. Maloney abuses someone who HONORED his father, Arthur J. Maloney – because Joan Wheeler told him to. (with screenshot of Arthur’s obit and my name from the guest book)

the dangers of writing shit about someone if you don’t know them – a lesson to be learned by Brian T. Maloney

Ruth admits to a big oopsey!

Guest post from Gert’s daughter Karen with update from Gert – Karen lets Brian have it for calling her mom and aunt dogs.

Chimp aka Brian T. Maloney continues to show the world what a disgusting moron he is – with graphics proving that he listened to lying gossip from Joan about someone I didn’t get along with back in the late 1970′s. – And she sent me a get well card in 1985. I post the card in this post.

Well Champ/Brian, on his HOW ELOQUENT! post has acknowledged SOME of the comments placed on that post/blog!

Just in case Brian Champ Thomas Maloney tries to deny who he is.

We know who Champ is!! His name is Brian Maloney and he has left his mark; I found him and now I expose him too.

ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS – are you listening Joan Wheeler? Are you listening Brian Maloney? August 29, 2012 –    Joan and Brian are conspiculously absent from a candlelight vigil for a murdered 5 year old girl, despite their spouting of healing.

Brian T. Maloney of Williamsville thinks he is GOD – I ain’t buying it, and neither will the police. August 29, 2012      in another stupid comment, Brian whines “I’m only trying to bring peace to your family.” and I tell him for the umpteenth time to butt out of my life.

dedicated to Brian T. Maloney of Williamsville or any other deluded puppet Joan Wheeler tries to sic on us. August 28, 2012      – I tell Brian AGAIN to get the hell out of my life and mind his own business.

Brian T. Maloney LION of Williamsville NY is a liar and harasses people again August 27, 2012   – Brian is back online and stalking and harassing us.

A Challenge to Brian T. Maloney of Williamsville, NY – live what you “teach” and walk your talk.August 22, 2012    – I tell Brian to read Tony Robbins Personal Power and get some real healing.

Brian T. Maloney (LION), Reiki “healer” of Williamsville NY passes judgment on those he considers to be inferior and menial to him.August 12, 2012     – Brian claims that only Joan is the only member of our family that is educated and the rest of us are uneducated and working at menial jobs NEWSFLASH – SHE ISN’T A LEGAL MEMBER OF OUR FAMILY ANWAY, DUMMY.

Brian T. Maloney, (Lion) Reiki Healer (?) from Williamsville NY judges teachers and health care workers as having “menial jobs.”August 12, 2012   – the title says it all.

Oh gods…Brian Maloney, Joan Wheeler’s defender, is ‘back again’…  – the idiot returns to harass us some more.

ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS – are you listening Joan Wheeler? Are you listening Brian Maloney? August 29, 2012

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A five year old girl was beaten to death in Niagara Falls the other day, by a 16 year old punk – I attended a candlelight vigil held for her Tuesday night, August 28. I wrote a poem for Isabella and included it in my report of the vigil in this post: candle light vigil for a little girl held in Cheektowaga, Tuesday night, August 28, 2012

What I want to know is – WHY WEREN’T JOAN WHEELER OR BRIAN MALONEY THERE AT THE VIGIL? After all, Joan is always spouting about the rights of children – WHY WEREN’T YOU AT A VIGIL FOR A 5 YEAR OLD GIRL WHO WAS MURDERED JOAN? – oh, she wasn’t “adopted” so her rights don’t count. You’re always bitching about abused children – and here was an child who was abused to the point of death. Where’s your outrage? – Where is your sense of REVERENCE FOR LIFE? as Dr. Albert Schweitzer said. No, you go and say that people who adopt should all be shot. Always bitching about the rights of Native Americans, you want to change society, blah, blah, blah, but what do you do in your book? Condemn me and mock me for my infertility, my miscarriage and my neighborhood activism. – see I don’t just go on the internet and yak about society’s ills – I WALK MY TALK! I worked with my local councilmen, I started up a block club – I got out there and organized a Street Clean-Up. I started a  petition in the early 90’s for rodent control and worked to get those blue totes that cut down on the rodents. What do YOU do Joan? NOTHING – JUST RUN YOUR RIDICULOUS HYPOCRITICAL MOUTH!

Brian is boasting that he is a Reiki “master” and healer. WHY WEREN’T YOU AT A VIGIL FOR A LITTLE GIRL WHO’S LIFELIGHT WAS TAKEN FROM HER BRIAN? Aren’t you supposed to be some sort of “New Agey” Master? and a healer?  Why didn’t you bring your healing to the vigil? mmmm? Were you busy late Tuesday evening with some sort of healing? Oh no – you were too busy writing another comment trashing me on the internet. You have time for that, but not for a real incident of HEALING! You are a hypocrite – just like your little buddy Joan – you can talk shit, but you can’t heal – now you say you wanted to bring peace to my family – even though we didn’t ask for you – – but your healing ain’t working pal. best you be on your way – cos you ain’t changing me no time soon. And I never will change – I don’t want Joan in my life she is not a legal member of my family – I will continue to expose her lies on this blog – with the court documents and her own handwritten letters that show she is a liar. yak yak yak – that’s all you two pathetic little weasels can do. But when it comes time for action – when the community needs our collective healing – you just sit at your computer keyboards and trashtalk people. what pathetic losers!

candle light vigil for a little girl held in Cheektowaga, Tuesday night, August 28, 2012 August 29, 2012

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tonight, Tuesday, August 27, I took part of sad gathering – a candlelight vigil for a 5 year old girl who was beaten to death by a 16 year old with his bare hands. Then he called a friend to help dispose of the body in a damn garbage can. – I stopped at Dollar General and bought a candle – chocolate chip scented. And I found a little ceramic angel and a little stuffed unicorn that I placed on the table that had pictures of her. What a sweet little child. No, I never met this little girl, Isabella. I never met her mother Crystal. But I am so outraged at the evil. And as a mother who lost her child (thru miscarriage in 1985) – I am a sister-in-grief to Crystal.

After everyone had a chance to sign a remembrance book and get their candles ready – we all lit our candles at exactly 10pm. Crystal wasn’t there, nor was she at the larger vigil that was held in the city of Niagara Falls (where Isabella’s young life was snuffed out) on Monday night. Other family members were there. Prayers were said, Amazing Grace was sung. Then several paper Chinese lanterns were lit and they soared up into the sky, crossing in front of the near full moon. I was struck by the beauty of it. Local television stations were there, WIVB, Channel 4 carried live for their 10pm news. I wasn’t near any of the reporters, so I don’t know what was said. I’ll see it tomorrow either on tv or on Ch 4’s website or their facebook page. – I left a couple of announcements about the vigil on my twitter – @ruthsippelpace and facebook –http://facebook.com/RuthSippelPace

Isabella, Isabella, an angel now you are. I’ve given you a magical unicorn to take you near and far. Chocolate chip cookies will be your daily fare with stardust and fairydust trailing from your hair.

Up in heaven you now live, to be with you, all that Crystal has, she would give. It was Bella’s time you see, A lesson to be learned by our whole community.

Children are killing children, by guns, by hands. Reverence for Life is what we all must understand.

I’ve revised (slightly) my poem. Here it is:

Isabella, Isabella, an angel now you are.
I’ve given you a magic unicorn to take you near and far.
Chocolate chip cookies will be your daily fare
with stardust and fairydust trailing from your hair.

Up in heaven you now live,
to be with you, all that Crystal has, she would gladly give.
It was Bella’s time you see,
A lesson to be learned by our whole community.

Children are killing children, by guns, by hands.
Reverence for Life is what we all must now understand.

Brian T. Maloney of Williamsville thinks he is GOD – I ain’t buying it, and neither will the police. August 29, 2012

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Brian left a comment that Gert shared with me via email – he wants to know how I know what he dresses like! What an idiot – — Brian – did you forget – you posted a mug shot of yourself on LinkedIn – wearing a rumpled blue plaid shirt and didn’t even comb your hair! On a PROFESSIONAL RESUME SHARING SITE! oh and Brian – who the hell asked YOU to “bring peace to our entire family?” Oh my heavens – this nutjob has a Jesus complex – he wants to SAVE MY FAMILY! — from what? JOAN? – then by all means, do so – get that little snot OUT OF OUR LIVES COMPLETELY! She is NOT a LEGAL member of the Sippel family – hasn’t been since 1957. In 1974, yes, we reunited with her – but when she stole from us, lied to and about us, created trouble left and right, she was shown the door. – BLOOD MEANS WE ARE RELATED – LOYALTY MEANS FAMILY.  She may have our genes, but she never showed loyalty to us. -IN THE EYES OF THE LAWS OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA AND NEW YORK STATE – JOAN MARY WHEELER IS NOT, I REPEAT NOT – A LEGAL RELATIVE OF RUTH B. PACE – THEREFORE I WANT HER TO REMOVE ALL MENTION OF ME ON HER WEBSITES – I DON’T NEED “PEACE” MEDIATIONS FROM A STALKER NAMED BRIAN MALONEY FROM SOMEONE WHO IS NOT LEGALLY RELATED FROM ME – now take bit of business and shove it Brian. MY LIFE IS NOT YOUR BUSINESS BRIAN – get out of my business – NOW!

 – keep it up Brian – YOU ARE ADMITTING TO HARASSMENT AND STALKING VIA INTERNET BY ADMITTING TO STICKING YOUR NOSE IN MY BUSINESS – I DID NOT ASK YOU TO ACT AS A MEDIATOR TO KEEP THE PEACE IN ANY OF MY RELATIONSHIPS. – KEEP IT UP AND POLICE REPORTS WILL BE FILED. and we see again, just as with Russell Thomas – another one of Joan Wheeler’s flunkys – when she sucked up to him and sicced on us – when I got the goods on him, AFTER he called me a bitch, he sleazed back – “I was only trying to help.” – Now we see this new scumbag Brian doing the same thing – he insults me and my sisters, cyberstalks us, calls us names, attacks us via his blog, NOW he says he’s only trying to help. – Three peas in a pod – Russell, Joan and Brian. sleazy lying creeps. Meanwhile, on public internet, Brian is showing people what a “healing Reiki master” he really is – a boorish abuser. And getting caught up in his own lies –

supposedly there’s a new infestation going around called The Blue Plague August 28, 2012

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Lord help us all – we’re going to be turned into Smurfs.

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1. gertmcqueen – August 28, 2012 [Edit]

if it was only this…but…
there is something far worst, the real real Blue Plague…

http://the-blue-plague.com/

for all the nut cases of angry adoptees that are tired of the way the US does business…

dedicated to Brian T. Maloney of Williamsville or any other deluded puppet Joan Wheeler tries to sic on us. August 28, 2012

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and don’t even try to accuse me or my sisters of judging Joan – this blog is not about adoption or any other stuff like that – it is to report the BEHAVIOR of Joan M. Wheeler – all the things she has done to us – like sending me a letter in 1999 telling me that my infertile husband got the next door neighbor pregnant, then getting on the internet and telling her adoptee friends “I never did a thing to Ruth.”
I am reporting the deeds and lies of a bully – and if any of Joan’s friends come over and start shit with me, then they better be prepared to get their shit thrown back in their face.

And for the umpteenth time – I AM NOT INTERESTED IN THE EFFECTS OF ADOPTION ON ANYBODY – NOT EVEN JOAN. THIS BLOG IS NOT ABOUT THAT – IT IS ABOUT THE BEHAVIOR OF JOAN M WHEELER. I DON’T CARE IF SHE WAS ADOPTED. I DON’T CARE THAT HER MOTHER DIED WHEN SHE WAS A BABY. GOT THAT? I DON’T CARE! Does Joan care that MY mother died when I was a toddler? NO, she does not! All she does is whine, “my sisters don’t understand me. They never took the time to understand me.” BULLSHIT!  I took the time back in the 70’s to understand her and I researched adoption and all that psycho-babble. I was one of her staunchest supporters. I stopped being supportive of Joan after she lied to me, stole from me, disrespected me –

I DON’T CARE WHO THE HELL YOU ARE OR WHAT YOUR CHILDHOOD WAS ALL ABOUT – YOU STEAL FROM ME, YOU LIE TO AND ABOUT ME, YOU DISRESPECT ME – YOU GET TOSSED OUT LIKE YESTERDAY’S GARBAGE!

 

Farewell to my hero – Neil Armstrong August 27, 2012

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dedicated to NEIL ARMSTRONG – my hero –
this song came out duirng the Apollo moon landing in 1969
 “tell the world the universe belongs to us today.” –
Tranquility Base out.

Brian T. Maloney LION of Williamsville NY is a liar and harasses people again August 27, 2012

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Brian T. Maloney now says that he never attacked nurses aides and says that I have maligned an innocent person, his ex-wife.

Brian is a liar – I did not mention his wife’s name in connection with the liquor store – I got my information from BRIAN’S  resume that HE put up on LinkedIn – BRIAN’S OWN WORDS HAVE CONDEMNED HIM – Brian says today that Rieki healer is NOT his job – yet he says on his resume on LinkedIN “self-employed as Reiki Master and healer.” – so one of his statements is a lie. He says “as sole owner and operator of Kenwin Liquor store, I did all that entailed – inventory, etc.” – – not an exact quote , but he DID exactly say he was the sole owner and employee of the store. – I did not mention his wife at all in conjunction with the store. – to clarify – Brian’s resume did list the last year he worked the store as 2006 and the review was written in 2008 – BUT the store is the same – the same little teeny-tiny rinky-dink hole in the wall. So nice job Brian – put the blame on your ex-wife for the mess that place was in. So in essence Brian – YOU are the one who dissed poor J. – YOU brought her into this conversation, NOT ME. I never said a word about J. YOU brought her up. – But like Teflon Reagan – you want to slime and sleaze your way out of it. Not a chance buddy, not a chance.  Why didn’t I mention the different years (2006 and 2008) before? – Because I was KEEPING HIS EX-WIFE OUT OF THIS DISCUSSION!  But Brian, abuser of women, dragged her into this. Nice going Brian, instead of being the bigger person, and assuming responsibilty for the store’s rotten review, you say “it ain’t my fault – it’s my ex-wife’s!” To keep her OUT of this discussion, YOU couldn’t be a “knight in shining armor? A HEALER? A PROTECTOR OF YOUR EX-WIFE’S REPUTATION? – remember Brian – YOU brought her up – nowhere in my post about that store and its review did I mention her. YOU did.  I see why she divorced you.  You know idiot, all you had to do was say, “oh, well, I sold the business to someone else in 2006.” You didn’t have to mention your ex-wife. Because I sure didn’t. (by the way J. A. M. – wise move on your part – getting out of your marriage to this abuser, liar, con-artist). Hugs sweetie!

It was BRIAN that said that “only Joan” (in our family) “educated herself” while the rest of us worked in “menial jobs.” He didn’t say nurses’ aides specifically – but then what was he referring to? Joan’s family members have worked as:’

fatther – civil engineer in Buffalo City Hall – educated himself by going to night school

Gert – dental hygienist after attending Erie Community College

Kathy – music teacher in Liverpool Public schools, educated as musician and teacher.

Leonard Jr. – nurse aide, mental health counselor, educated as nurse aide, counselor

Ruth – nurse aide, educated as such

Joan’s adoptive father – worked at Dunlop Tires as an electrician – had to be educated for that.

various members of Joan’s extended birth family – have worked in bank offices, registered nurses, many varied occupations and degrees of education.

so what is BRIAN’S basis to say that Joan is the only person in our family who is educated and just WHO is working at a menial job –

Brian – SHUT YOUR MOUTH – because you are only making an ass of yourself. It was YOU Brian that brought up the term “menial jobs.” And who the hell are YOU to say that anyway? Even a sewer worker has worth buddy – even a sewer worker. And for you to say ANYbody is a “menial” is disgusting. EVERY person on this planet has worth and dignity – whether they are president of the United States, or a homeless, jobless person that never made it to even the first grade. Millions of people in Third World countries don’t even get to first grade – so BRIAN condemns them for not having an education. They don’t have jobs. They work at “menial” jobs. And Brian, mister hoity-toity “reiki master” puts down people who toil at menial jobs. Yes you did Brian – you went out of your way to mention “menial jobs.” whether you meant nurses aides or not. – I defended my career – for you to take my defense as such in such a manner to get all bent out of shape, shows me and the rest of the world that that is exactly what you meant. DARVO again. Keep on talking your bullshit Brian – because you’re doing a much better job at showing the world what a liar you are than I could ever do. I see why you and Joan like each other so much – two peas in a pod – two delusional idiots who every time they open their moujths they contradict themselves. And either don’t realilze it, or don’t care.

It was YOU Brian that brought up JOAN”S education and said that she is the only one interested in educating herself. It wasn’t me.  It was RUTH who showed Brian for the idiot that he is – and now he is backtracking and lying – no wonder he’s divorced, foreclosed on his condo, dresses like po’ white trash.

Brian Maloney is at it again… August 27, 2012

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yet more from the abuser

 

Joan Wheeler’s henchman is at it again…

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A Challenge to Brian T. Maloney of Williamsville, NY – live what you “teach” and walk your talk. August 22, 2012

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Challenge to Brian T. Maloney of Williamsville NY – are you going to live what you teach and walk your talk? All your bullshit Reiki “master” and Lao blah blah – and what is your life REALLY about? – getting on the internet and trashing women you’ve never met. The only thing you know about me is the lies that Joan Wheeler has told you about me. You “think” you are a Reiki “master” and “healer” yet slam ME for being a healthcare worker (calling me uneducated and menial).  While you slaved 16 years in a rinky-dink corner liquor store.

I suggest you get hold of Tony Robbins “Personal Power” course. Ditch the bitch who is bringing you down and learn to soar. – because you are going nowhere — fool.

In 1990, I obtained Tony’s Personal Power course – and I learned a lot from it. But as with all the “self-help” programs, you have to take some things with a grain of a salt. Adapt the program to fit YOU.  There is not ONE “self-help” guru out there with all the answers to your problems. Be they Tony Robbins, Wayne Dyer, John Bradshaw, Leo Buscaglia, or Norman Vincent Peale.

I’ve learned a lot from these guys and from others too. I’ve studied many different spiritual paths too – and the one thing I can recognize is a deluded bully – and that’s just what Brian is.

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