Joan Wheeler may have been abused because of her adoption, but this doesn’t give her the right to abuse ME! February 1, 2013Posted by Ruth in Joan Wheeler's abuse and harassment of her birth family, Refuting Joan Wheelers statements.
This morning, Gert highlighted an old post of mine on her blog: “Pippin the Mighty – a well adjusted, very happy adoptee, who is NOT in any sort of state of denial, that I wrote on April 7, 2012. I left this comment on that post, but it should be a separate post all on its own:
A new friend of mine on facebook has been following The Joni Show lately and left this comment: “Unless she (Joan) wants to realize that her parents’ choices are not a reflection on her, and that she can move forward any time she chooses.” To which I replied: “she knows all that – she doesn’t WANT to move forward – she WANTS to wallow in her misery – to garner sympathy – oh poor poor pitiful me, I was given up for adoption while my sibs were not. sob” so yeah – Princess Leia, like countless others are adopted. And are handling it just fine. In recent years on the internet – I’ve seen many “damaged” adoptees. These are the ones who were adopted and suffered abuse at the hands of the people who adopted them. For those, I truly do feel some sympathy. I have come to realize that Joan must have suffered some sort of physical abuse – tho she has never said so. But the signs are there. Throughout her book – she is fixated on “hand movements” – she describes one abusive relationship in 2007 where the guy is screaming at her and she balls up into a fetal position. – if she was physically abused, then she has my sympathy. HOWEVER – her “damaged” childhood or whatever demon she is fighting DOES NOT GIVE HER THE RIGHT TO ABUSE ME – AND SHE HAS BEEN ABUSING ME SINCE 1983 – AND THIS MUST STOP. I was three years old when she was adopted – I HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH IT. In 1974, when we were reunited, I took her into my life and my heart and was repaid with nothing short of bullshit abuse! Thefts, lying, manipulation, harassment. NO MORE!
- 1. Paula – February 1, 2013[
Yes. Poor Joan. Does she realize lots of people go through pain but don’t seek revenge on everyone who they blindly and maliciously claim to be responsible for the pain? She is sick and delusional. I wish everytime she posted somewhere on the internet her comments would be automatically tagged “liar, manipulator, and delusional” then you wouldn’t have to do it manually.
ROFLMAO! Joan’s name is synonomous with LIAR, MANIPULATOR, DELUSIONAL!