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My life is mine – Joan Wheeler or her puppets can’t have it! May 27, 2013

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I see on twitter a person who is a real pain in my ass tweeting on several topics today. She’s been painting the inside of her house – next up – she has outdoor projects to work on. Good to see she’s keeping busy. Good to see she’s paying attention to her own dam life and not MINE! It’s what I’ve been saying for past 25 years or so! That she needs to pay attention to her life and leave me alone.

All the dam time she spent writing slanderous letters about me to elected officials – or making lying phone calls about me – could have been better spent in raising her own kids! (she commented somewhere on the internet in the recent past that she never had time to sew dresses for her daughter). But she found time to write reams of lies about me.

I love playing around on the internet. There’s so much to do – so much fun to partake of and so many things out there to learn. But I don’t spend all my life on the internet. I enjoy some computer games. Mah-Jongg, Bounce-Out, Bejeweled, Jewel Quest, Collapse. And I write a newsletter for my Star Trek group and conduct meetings for the group. As well as attending monthly meetings at Iron Island Museum. After the meetings we go on a ghost hunt throughout the museum. As a budding paranormal investigator, I can appreciate the museum, the most haunted location in Buffalo.

And I just joined a new organization – a drumming circle that meets every Sunday evening. Meetup.com is a great place to find things to do with people who think just like you. I’ve been a member of the general website for several years and a member of a few local groups.

Then I have my own house to take care of. Been revamping my front garden. Got it all cleaned and pruned. Waiting until after it rains and the ground gets softened up again to install the edging and put in new plants and sow seeds. Then I have to revamp the front hedge and then revamp the side garden.

We want to put up lattice board and enclose our porch (somewhat) and train the climbing roses to go up the lattice board.

And I have some other writing projects I want to get to. They might have to wait until winter. But if I can get the lattice board up this summer, I can sit out on the porch and work on them. The latticework will block off some of the sun, which really bothers my vampire eyes.

I have a large assortment of windchimes stored away in my basement. Couldn’t put them as we were replacing the whole dam porch (I guess I should have put up the latticeboard then oh well!) and the past couple of years I’ve been bogged down with illnesses. But I did purchase a new one at Big Lots a couple of months ago, and it’s been still in the bag, sitting in my utlity room – waiting to be put out. I put it out today.

I wind down by watching DVDs of my favorite movies and tv shows. As my budget permits, I’m filling in the holes of my star Trek DVD collection. I have the complete collection of the original series, the animated series, and Enterprise. Some of Next Gen, Deep Space Nine and Voyager. I have all the movies. I have the complete series of Hercules and Xena, Flash, Earth 2, Buck Rogers, as well as some of Fame, Hill Street Blues and Paper Chase, some of Ghost Hunters. I am completing my Remington Steele collection this week. I also have some great mini-series – Roots, Roots II, The First Churchills, Shaka Zulu, Edward and Mrs. Simpson, Brideshead Revisited, Cosmos, Centennial, Shogun, Horatio Hornblower, The Captains and the Kings. – of course Joan just HAD to put me down in her book because I do like collecting movies. seems as tho she is simply jealous that I have the funds to purchase these things. But then I have something called a JOB that allows me to purchase these things. a J O B – something that Joan wouldn’t get off her ass and get.

You see, I’m a busy lady. I work hard at my job, taking care of sick people. Then I come home and take care of my house. I am fully occupied. Too bad Joan and her puppets have such empty lives that they have to constantly stick their noses into my life and lie about me.

It totally amazes me that grown people just don’t get life’s lessons – and stop being jealous and envious of others. There’s currently a cow-worker of mine who is 4 years younger than me. She’s been making snide remarks about “dieters.” Me, and two other co-workers are on diets. I am on a diet because I am slightly overweight. I am on a diet for MY health, not for anybody else. And despite being slightly overweight and having arthritis and constant back pain due to having been born with scoliosis, my overall health is very good. And after being banged up a bit in a car accident last month I’m feeling very well.

It was good to see that my elevated blood pressure was not caused by a heart problem, but my temper – due to my being mad as hell as some asshole who decided to peel out from a parking spot at the curb into oncoming traffic – which was my van. The doctor at the emergency room decided to give me a cardiac workout – which showed my ticker was just fine. But alas! My starship Voyager was not. Even a stint in spacedock was not going to help her. So we had to get a new vehicle. And while I admit, the many buttons and controls on the luxury Town and Country van the rental agency gave me made me feel as though I was in the cockpit of an airplane, I learned rather quickly the controls of my new starship – a 2010 Dodge Caravan Deluxe. She’s sleek, black, with glitter! She will prove to be a fine starship in her own right. Her keyfob is just right.

I have a house, a luxury vehicle, a good job, a wonderful husband, good friends and co-workers. I have many interests and hobbies. I have worked the past 40 plus years to attain them. If anybody has anything to say about any area of my life – they should know – I find them contemptuous jealous individuals. You want what I have? Then go get it. The only person stopping you – is YOU!

Captain Pace's coffee

even my coffee makes me think big and soar!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=85sIJcC8zbs

1. gertmcqueen – May 27, 2013 [Edit]
Gert here…
did I read somewhere today about her daughter having a ‘disability’ that almost killed her??
That MUST HAVE BEEN WHY Joan asked MY DAUGHTER to commit a crime for Joan!
I wrote ALL ABOUT THAT…it can be found on my blog http://www.gertmcqueen.wordpress.com and the blog post’s title and date are…

Evidence of how Joan Wheeler sets people against each other and how she exploits and tries to enlist my daughter into committing crimes! on October 20, 2011

 

Ruth here — that passage in her book where she was putting me down for collecting movies and horror books/movies – she said that in conjunction with her filthy mockery of my miscarriage – saying that it was just as well that I couldn’t get pregnant because – well she didn’t really say why – was it because I spent money on movies and books?

Well then, Joan was judging ME by the way SHE mothered HER kids – she was too busy spending money in September 1986 to see a rock concert that she already had seen and not paying her electric bill. She had a toddler son at home and was 8 months pregnant with her daughter, but instead of paying her electric bill, she spent money to see The Monkees. And in 1989 she was dipping into a joint checking account, funded by ME, that was supposed to be used to buy real estate. Instead, Joan was dipping into it for living expenses. Without my knowledge or permission – STEALING from me. And when we were due for a refund from the lawyer, she calls me up and informs me that she was keeping it to provide Christmas for her kids. Oh gee wow! She lamblasts me in her book for spending money on movies and books, speculating that I wouldn’t use my money on my kids if I had any, but instead of getting off HER lazy and get a JOB, she’d rather just STEAL money.

And by the way, in 1992, when John and I got a dog – I spent over $100.00 for a doghouse for her from Pet Smart. I didn’t steal it – I just didn’t buy any books for awhile. And by the way, Joan, that dog – a 65 pound Siberian Husky/Malamute, named Brandy was not a cat – she was a dog. That sure was a poorly researched book you wrote there.

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“try this for a deep dark secret …” May 27, 2013

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Is the first sentance in the opening credit sequence of the 1980’s tv series Remington Steele. –

I had purchased the first two seasons on DVD  a couple of years ago and always intended to get the rest, but never got around to it. The other day, I was at Target and saw seasons 4 and 5 in one DVD set and picked it up. Then when I got home, I went to amazon.com and ordered season 3.

Yes, that’s correct – I went to the website amazon.com. Wonder if Joan Wheeler will get all thrown into a tizzy because I dared to go to amazon.com. Joan seems to think she can order me around and tell me which internet sites I can and cannot go to. I don’t care if she doesn’t want me at amazon.com – I will not obey her and I will go to any dam website I want.

“try this for a deep dark secret – the great detective Remington Steele – he doesn’t exist.”

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xfo7et_remington-steele_shortfilms

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Fun FACTS you may not know May 25, 2013

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just for fun! and to bring attention to another one of our blogs.

The Three Sippel Sisters - Genevieve's Daughters

It takes glass one million years to decompose, which means it never wears out and can be recycled an infinite number of times.

Gold is the only metal that doesn’t rust, even if it’s buried in the ground for thousands of years .

Your tongue is the only muscle in your body that is attached at only one end .

If you stop getting thirsty, you need to drink more water. When a human body is dehydrated, its thirst mechanism shuts off.

Each year 2,000,000 smokers either quit smoking or die of tobacco-related diseases.

Z ero is the only number that cannot be represented by Roman numerals

Kites were used in the American Civil War to deliver letters and newspapers.

The song, Auld Lang Syne, is sung at the stroke of midnight in almost every English-speaking country in the world to bring in the new year.

Drinking water after eating…

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Who does Joan Wheeler #forbiddenfamily hate the most? May 23, 2013

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Reclaiming the Sippel-Herr Family Honor

1st, the woman who adopted her! AND 2nd herself! Their relationship was a love/hate, symbiotic, co-dependency, sadist/masochistic relationship! And one that neither of them wished nor wanted to dissolve! It was literally ‘to death do we part’! But it continues on past the grave…for Joan Wheeler still keeps the hate ALIVE.

A tweet of May 16, 2013 tells us what Joan Wheeler believes a ‘just’ punishment should be.

@HuffPostCrime @HuffingtonPost  She wants to die. Let her live till 90. 70+ years in jail to relive her hell. Death by injection: too easy

Okay, I shall grant you that there are many good reasons for keeping someone in jail for life versus the death penalty…but that debate is NOT what we are discussing here. So put aside your own personal opinion on the issue of life imprisonment or death, for that is not our focus. The point…

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Prayers for victims of super tornado of May 20, 2013 May 21, 2013

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Natural disasters are a part of life on this planet. Some can be avoided, other cannot. We who are not affected by the horrible super tornado that devasted the town of Moore, Oklahoma must do what we can. Donate cash, goods, food, water. Consider going to the nearest Red Cross and donate blood.

healing prayers - green candle anim

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gertmcqueen – May 21, 2013 [Edit]
last night…we here in Northern NY had a wild thunder/lightening storm, tiny in comparison…I like many have lived through major and minor storms and we keep on helping our neighbors when those storms occur.

earlier this morning I placed this on my facebook…

natural disasters are difficult for all to deal with, but, it is the price we paid, as humans, on this planet…we all are part of nature and are subjected to the whims of nature, just as the tree loses it’s leaves and branches and sometimes being uprooted…we human also endure the winds and storms of nature, losing our leaves and branches, being uprooted…and then the storm passes and we pick up the pieces and move on…that’s all we can do…

“You shall do as I WANT!!!” May 20, 2013

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and as I have told Joan Wheeler over and over – “I will not obey you.”

Salem Witch Hunt

“You shall do as I WANT!!!”

temper-tantrumNot only do narcissists expect automatic compliance of their wishes or special treatment wherever they go, you are supposed to know what they require at any given moment. They react with frustration and rage when they don’t get what they want. They can get verbally or even physically violent if someone questions them. They carry a constant feeling that every wrong that they have done—hardly any, from their own point of view—can and should be forgiven and forgotten. They take no responsibility for their behavior, and they have no qualms about blaming others.

Read more about narcissistic traits!



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Joan Wheeler’s latest whine that she wants to be left alone (just hours after being hauled into court for bothering me). May 19, 2013

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Gert wrote a great blogpost today – “ADOPTION caused the many faces of #Joan Wheeler ” – I’m posting it here in its entirety – PLUS my comment. Because I think it’s just so dam funny that Joan, after bothering the hell out of me constantly for the past 20 plus years, whines right after our appearance in court on May 15, 2013, that she “wants to be left alone.” She must fancy herself to be Greta Garbo. Well, a word of warning to Miss Whiner-Joan – keep turning people away from you and you WILL be left alone. Why don’t you take stock of how many people in your life you have had fights with, they end up not liking you, hating you, telling you to stop lying, telling you to go away – and ask yourself where the problem lies – in all those people? Or maybe – the problem is with YOU – because that IS where the problem is Joan. Anyway – here’s Gert’s post and my comment:

In the movie, The Three Faces of Eve, Eve has multiple personalities. So too, does Joan Wheeler. She has clinical depression, possible bipolar and has a host of physical ailments, so much so that she is disabled. In fact Joan has never been able to hold down a job and NEVER worked as a social worker because of her disabilities. This is NOT a violation of any confidential information! Joan Wheeler has documented it EVERYWHERE. She is proud of her ailments and conditions, because, ADOPTION made her that way and Joan is totally against any form of ADOPTION.

Over the decades, since Joan was found and reunited with the birthfamily, her behavior was and became more strange, uncontrollable and dangerous to others and eventually everyone turned their backs on her. Then in 2009 Joan published a disgusting libelous hate manifesto against everyone in the birth and adoptive families. We birth siblings were able to get the book pulled from publication but Joan persists in fighting us over HER TRUTH. Her reason for writing the book was NOT for adoption reform, but to EARN MONIES, off the backs of her birth and adoptive families.

In the book and all over the internet Joan uses creative writing to the MAX. She uses a lot of speculation…you know that ‘inner voice with your face’ in one’s head that informs you what another human being is thinking and why they are doing what they do! Such writing and speculation COULD work if one is writing FICTION and FICTIONAL characters. But, Joan wrote a NON-FICTION book, using our FAMILY NAMES and other identifying information, stated it was a TRUE STORY and published it!

Since the book came out, we birth siblings have established blogs refuting the lies and reclaiming our personal and family honors, only to have Joan Wheeler create another hate blog against us, wherein she not only speculations but outright lies! She has enlisted fellow angry adoptees and male friends to harass and attack us and create hate blogs against us.

The many faces of Joan Wheeler has NO PROBLEM with being NEGATIVE to blood birth relatives, who will NEVER stay away when told to, who ALWAYS interfers in birthsiblings’ lives, ALWAYS mocks, browbeats, intimidates birth siblings and anyone else who gets in her way.

After a recent Family Court appearance on May 15, 2013, between Joan Wheeler and Ruth Pace, Joan had a couple of interesting tweets to say about the event.

Oh…you don’t know WHY those two are in Family Court! Well, Joan falsely accused Ruth of a work violation at Ruth’s employment and then BRAGGED about it on Huffington Post. Ruth has a ‘order of protection’ AGAINST Joan Wheeler, until the issue can be brought before the judge. The case keeps having delays. Next court date is July 23.

I bring this up because…Joan’s many faces seem to forget her real OWN DIRTY DEEDS AND WORDS. Talk about a pompous ass!

On her Twitter feed around May 15/16, 2013 Joan Wheeler says…to whom? her vast audience?

I don’t want 2 waste my life on people who hate me. Want to spend my life on people who love me and I love them. Positive only!

What do you do when the people who hate keep interfering in your life? Can’t get em away from me. Like the flu, allergies, virus

Can I ever be left alone? I have my life to live with the people I care about, not the ones who insist on belittling me.

For someone who does not know me at all, she sure spreads a lot of speculation

Yep, Joan Wheeler doesn’t like anyone WHO DOES NOT KNOW HER to spread speculations! But, SHE can do it all she wants! Hey, we birthsiblings, were WRITTEN ABOUT in a book that Joan Wheeler wrote. We proved it was libelous and it no longer exists. We can QUOTE Joan’s own ‘true’ words, for we have the book…NOT many have it and NO ONE ELSE will ever get it! And we shall continue to counter every lie and SPECULATION that Joan has written and said about us…count on it!

More to come…

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Ruth

yes I found that stupid tweet VERY stupid myself! Just a couple of hours after our appearance in court she’s whining that she wants to be left alone!

BUT does she ever leave ME alone? Writing a letter to my employer was NOT LEAVING RUTH ALONE! What the hell did she think I was going to do when I found out about the letter? Just ignore her? – Actually what she THOUGHT was going to happen was that I was going to get fired. – Joan is just so STUPID.  She tried that shit back in 1995 – didn’t work then, didn’t work now. AND she’s so STUPID to think that an accusation of computer fraud couldn’t be investigated? She said the same dam thing in 1994-95 – she was informed by hospital adminstration that I had been investigated and found innocent. And the same thing happened now. – I was investigated and found innocent. BECAUSE DUMASS JOAN NEVER LEARNS THAT BIG CORPORATIONS HAVE TIGHT COMPUTER SECURITY – THEY KNOW EVERY THING I DO ON THE COMPUTER! And I work for a big corporation – Kaleida Health, which oversees 6 large hospitals, and the University of Buffalo’s medical school, which is world-wide renowned. I;ve worked there for 40 dam years and have earned a reputation that is spotless – a reputation of honesty and integrity. A reputation of delivering excellant patient care. Joan is incredibly stupid to not learn to leave Ruth alone. But her problem is – she is too stupid to THINK. Joan wants to be left alone? ha ha ha

here is the famous clip of Garbo’s “vant to be alone.” – she pissed off people, she can’t take the responsibility of her actions, and instead of DOING THE RIGHT THING – she whines “I vant to be alone.”

Look at the faces of some of the people as they pass Garbo to do as she asked – sneered at her in disgust and anger. As does every person that Joan pisses off and leaves her alone. – I leave her alone – until she lies about me and creates trouble for me – which is every dam day of her life. She can’t even go 3 hours after a court appearance to run to tweet bullshit that she is not left alone – EVEN THOUGH SHE WAS THE ONE WHO CREATED THE SITUATION WHERE SHE IS NOT LEFT ALONE. IF YOU WANT TO BE LEFT ALONE JOAN – THEN SHUT YOUR MOUTH ABOUT ME AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR FILTHY LIES ABOUT ME.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tojjWQvlPN8

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ADOPTION caused the many faces of #Joan Wheeler May 19, 2013

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Reclaiming the Sippel-Herr Family Honor

In the movie, The Three Faces of Eve, Eve has multiple personalities. So too, does Joan Wheeler. She has clinical depression, possible bipolar and has a host of physical ailments, so much so that she is disabled. In fact Joan has never been able to hold down a job and NEVER worked as a social worker because of her disabilities. This is NOT a violation of any confidential information! Joan Wheeler has documented it EVERYWHERE. She is proud of her ailments and conditions, because, ADOPTION made her that way and Joan is totally against any form of ADOPTION.

Over the decades, since Joan was found and reunited with the birthfamily, her behavior was and became more strange, uncontrollable and dangerous to others and eventually everyone turned their backs on her. Then in 2009 Joan published a disgusting libelous hate manifesto against everyone in the birth and adoptive families. We…

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How Joan Wheeler besmirched my father’s reputation in her filthy lying book Forbidden Family May 16, 2013

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In Joan’s book Forbidden Family, Joan portrays my father as a poor uneducated person.- this is how she described him on page 490;

Natural Father – Level of Education: High school, night school.  (She doesn’t explain. But I will in a minute).

Economic class: Poor, advanced to working class 1950’s, advanced to middle class in 1970’s.  — oboy do I have something to say about THAT!

Now lets get the TRUTH out here – my father dropped out of high school and went back and got his GED.

When he first married my mother, he was a machinist in a bicycle shop and went to night school – subject – drafting, blueprint design. He married my mother in 1946. In 1955 he was hired by the City of Buffalo as a Junior Engineer (draftsman) in the streets paving department which was located, and still is, on the fifth floor of Buffalo’s City Hall. He also made good money working for the city. Therefore, he was neither “poor” nor “working class” – he was economically considered middle class, and his career was not “working class” but PROFESSIONAL.

In 1965, he bought a house and took on a second job as salesman at Sears Roebuck, located on Main St. and Jefferson St. in Buffalo, across the street from Canisius College. Just because he worked a second job does not mean he was “poor” – he now had a mortgage to pay, repairs and upkeep of a property, and four teenagers at home. I’m sure that any reader who is a home-owner and has kids can relate. Teenagers in the 60’s were expensive back then too! And there were 4 of us!

Now, Joan likes to drop names – so I think I will indulge myself here and do a little bit of name-dropping myself.

Because my father worked in City Hall, whenever us kids would go visit him – and we did this quite often – he would take us around and introduce us to people. I swear I lived half my childhood in the halls of Buffalo City Hall! I know that every time Buffalo had a new mayor, my dad would take us down to the second floor and meet him. I have one memory – I was small – maybe 5 or 6 – sitting on the lap of Mayor Frank Sedita. At his desk. I can just see his face in my memory, and he gave me a hug. I only remember the impression that I had of him was that he was a nice man. Being a little kid, I don’t think I “knew” his name – but then I would see him on tv and remember him as the nice man that gave me a hug. As time went on, and I got older, and kept seeing him on tv, I became aware of his name and what he was – mayor of Buffalo.

In today’s (May 16, 2013) mail, I received a small package from sister Gert. She had taken some photographs of her baby book. And it listed her godparents. Her godmother was our mother’s sister Catherine Miller and her godfather was Henry Nowak. Holy shit!

Henry Nowak was a Republican Congressman from Buffalo and as I recall, Mr. Nowak was helpful in getting my brother Butch’s “less than dishonorable” (due to a “youthful indescretion”) disharge from the Marines changed to honorable discharge.

I also have in my possesion the funeral memorial books of my father’s parents and my first stepmother (my father’s second wife). I checked the memorial books – although Mr. Nowak’s signature does not appear in any of the books, Arthur O. Eve signed the books of our first stepmother and our grandmother. Mr. Eve ran for mayor of Buffalo and has served on the Buffalo Common Council — I also recall my father telling me that when we used to live on Smith st., Mr. Eve asked my father to be an alderman. But my father declined.- wow – an invitation to be a politician!

gee, I guess this makes our dad a little better off than how Joan portrayed him in her filthy book.

NOW DO YOU SEE WHY OUR BLOGS ARE CALLED REFUTING A BOOK A LIES AND RECLAIMING THE SIPPEL-HERR FAMILY HONOR?

MY FATHER’S HONOR WAS BESMIRCHED IN THAT FILTHY BOOK AND I’M RECLAIMING HIS HONOR!

by the way, both Mr. Eve and Mr. Nowak are still living – anybody want to call them up and ask them how they know Mr. Leonard J. Sippel – go right ahead!

1. gertmcqueenMay 16, 2013

very good Ruth! In time I will finish a post about our father as well…it requires some research and time to compose…but in a nut shell…it’s about OUR FATHER’s reputation via Joan Wheeler. I came up with 40 pages from that lying book where she has described Dad in very demeaning terms. Her view is NOT the truth, her IMPRESSIONS are not the truth. She has dishonored everyone in our family with her speculations insults and more. In due time I will address those 40 pages!

2. gertmcqueenMay 16, 2013
3. RuthMay 16, 2013

You know what? I forgot to say WHY my father dropped out of high school – he dropped out, like so many other young men, to enlist in the armed forces during World War II. My father enlisted in the United States Army. Due to “weak eyes,” however, he did not see combat, but served stateside in Army bases in Georgia and elsewhere, and was for a time stationed in Washington, D.C. – When he was discharged from the Army, he went and obtained his GED.

4. RuthMay 16, 2013

and by god if ANYone says we don’t have the right to have a blog and put out the TRUTHFUL employment of OUR father – well they better go take a look at blue wolf that is on the home page of this blog. Because that wolf represents ME. I am usually a shy, quiet person – but when someone steps on my toes I will howl and snarl and the end results are not pretty. Joan got my “werewolf” out – and it’s not going back in any time soon.

Update on Court Proceedings of May 15, 2013 – Ruth Pace vs. Joan Wheeler May 15, 2013

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First, my lawyer must have been caught up in his other case. He did tell me that he would be in Family Court today on another case and would try to get to me. But he didn’t make my case. So we went into the court room and I told the judge this. Joan’s lawyer asked that today’s proceedings be dismissed on the grounds that my complaint was made against Brian Maloney, and Joan is not responsible for his actions. The judge agreed, but did give me some advice that I could press criminal charges on Brian in regular city court since Brian is not a family member. I will keep this in mind.

So – what does this mean – it means that via her lawyer, Joan Wheeler has denied any relationship to Brian Maloney, that he does NOT speak for her. Her lawyer put forth that Joan was not in violation of the order of protection and that Brian Maloney was responsible for what Brian said. This means that Brian is indeed subject to criminal charges for further attacks, slander, threats, stalking of me and my family. Also, I would take it to be implied that Joan is disavowing ANY relationship with ANY “champ” or “defender,” which includes Russell Thomas. Looks like you guys got thrown under the bus.

Now, Brian himself, was NOT in court today.Why not? Isn’t he Joan’s “great defender” and “Champ”ion? He did say back in January that he didn’t want to get involved, then when I brought to public Joan’s tweet about her fantasizing about “blowing up government offices” she must have called him in to be her “champ”ion. And boy did he come running. And tried to enter the court room on April 17. The bailiff told him to wait outside and I chimed in that he had no business in the courtroom. And because of my standing up for MY rights and making it clear that this outsider, this interloper had no business in MY case, he resorts to attacking me on the internet again. But then, doesn’t follow thru with his grandiose interference in a matter that DOES NOT CONCERN HIM.

OR – perhaps Joan’s lawyer advised her to cut ties with Brian – or told Brian to butt out. Which is what I would expect a good lawyer to do. Because despite Brian’s claims to be Joan’s good friend and defender – he is actually hurting her case.

Joan did have another man with her. I don’t know who he is. Never saw him before. Don’t know his name. He looks rather pleasant, like a nice guy. Well, you know what they say – nice guys finish last.

This is all very interesting. Brian, for some reason, could not or would not come to support Joan. And lo and behold! Another of Joan’s “good buddies who are ready to don shining armor and take on big bad Ruth” – Russell Thomas, comes out of the woodwork the other day. We haven’t heard from this worm for over a year, and now all of a sudden there he is! BUT he doesn’t show any inclination of wanting to get involved in a matter that is none of his business. Wise move Russ.

So Russ and Brian could not or would not come and hold poor Joan’s hand today, so she got somebody else. You know, if she’s big and brave enough to talk shit on the internet about me – if she’s big and brave enough to contact my employer with false accusations via an anonymous letter, then be big and brave and BRAG on the internet about contacting my employer – why is she NOT Woman enough to come to court and stand on her own two feet?  She can talk the talk, but can’t take responsiblity for her talk. And there would be NO need for this – if Joan would learn to SHUT HER MOUTH ABOUT ME AND MY FAMILY AND TELL THE DAM TRUTH! – in other words – STOP LYING ABOUT ME AND CAUSING TROUBLE!

And the funniest part of today – after we left the courtroom, I had to use the ladies room. Joan and her new “champ” were standing talking to her lawyer. I walked past them and went to the bathroom. When I came out, at the other end of the corridor, I see Joan and her new “champ” walking towards me. The elevators were between us, but I moved to the opposite wall – as a courtesy – to let Joan and “new champ” pass me. I intended to keep walking and let them go for an elevator first. As they passed me, I looked directly at them, not in any antagonistic way, but a direct look. Joan lowered her head and looked at the floor. And I noted she was holding “new champ’s” hand. They walked past the elevators to the ladies room, where Joan entered and “new champ” took up guard outside the door.

OH PU-LEAZE! Did she think I was going to jump on her and beat her ass in a public courtroom where there are sheriff deputies all over the place? Well, violence DOES occur in court buildings, but this was just total nonsense! Look Joan, YOU are not worth MY going to jail over – I am not the one who breaks the law – YOU are.

So now we wait til our regularly scheduled court date of July 23, 2013 for Joan to answer charges of harassment and slander due to her contacting my employer with false accusations.

As to Brian – and his threat of blackmail over me – his threat to expose my “dark dirty secret.” Let it be known here and now, that I have NEVER spoken to Brian T. Maloney – he does NOT know me. I do not recognize any attempt of extortion or blackmail in this threat to expose anything about me. I challenge him to go right ahead and let out this “dark dirty secret” that he thinks I have. BUT BE WARNED BRIAN – since you are a stranger to me – and have never met me, don’t know me, never spoken to me – whatever you put out on the internet can and will be considered slander, libel, harassment and cyber-bullying and you will be subject to criminal charges of harassment, threatening me, slander, and libel.

As I warned Russell yesterday – I only have to pay my lawyer once – and that’s been done. Joan has a lawyer – she has a legal “champ” now.

SO I AM SAYING ONCE MORE, AS I HAVE SAID MANY TIMES BEFORE TO RUSSELL THOMAS AND BRIAN T. MALONEY – LEAVE ME ALONE. GET OUT OF MY LIFE. YOU ARE STRANGERS TO ME. YOU DON’T KNOW ME – YOU ARE NOW STALKING, HARASSING, THREATENING, SLANDERING AND LIBELING ME – CRIMINAL CHARGES WILL BE BROUGHT TO BEAR. REMOVE THOSE SLANDEROUS HARASSING BLOGS YOU HAVE AGAINST ME. YOU HAVE BOTH BEEN TOLD REPEATEDLY TO LEAVE ME ALONE – THIS IS THE LAST TIME I’M SAYING IT — LEAVE ME ALONE.

. gertmcqueen – May 15, 2013 [Edit]
As I said the other day to Russ, when he ‘requested’ that we refrain from using his name…sorry…Russ and Brian…by their own free will did come and create blogs against the characters of 3 women they do not know, except via what Joan Wheeler told them! And now that the heat has been turned on, with COURT, both Russ and Brian are bowing out and Joan has indicated, via her lawyer, that she did NOT ask them to speak for her. That means…that if either one speaks again against us three birthsiblings, that would be HARASSMENT…they have been warned!

It is unfortunate that this case continues to have delay upon delay, but eventually it WILL BE HEARD! In the meanwhile we continue on REFUTING THE LIES AND RECLAIMING OUR PERSONAL AND FAMILY HONORS.

If Joan wants to be left alone…she ought to have thought about that BEFORE she wrote a libelous book against the birth family and us individually. She has that dead book hanging around her neck and it shall stay there until she comes clean and acknowledges that she did wrong, apology for all she has done, takes down her hate blogs against us and ALL references to us and STOPS talking about us, in any form. Until she does that, she just has to live with the BIRTH SISTERS in her face everywhere she is. She wrote the book ABOUT us and we shall continue to tell the world all about it.

3. PaulaMay 15, 2013

Cowards! They are pathetic cowards. Go, Gert!

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4. PaulaMay 15, 2013

Go, Ruth! :)

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RuthMay 15, 2013

thank you Paula – and yes – they are ALL cowards.

gertmcqueen – May 16, 2013
thanks Paula!
our day will come!

6. RuthMay 16, 2013

not only is Brian a coward, but I have to ask – does he have a life? I mean, how much time and energy has he spent devoted to bullying and harassing a woman he doesn’t know? I’m talking about mainly me, but he has also insulted Gert. But I seem to be his main target. WHY? Now, I have devoted time and energy to this blog, because I have been slandered due to Joan’s book and internet activities – but I must question WHY is Brian so damned concerned with MY life and what I do? And it isn’t because he wants to “defend a friend.” That’s so bullshit – because he has spent little time in actual defending Joan – most of his “defenses” has consisted in talking about ME. A defense is a defense – consisting of talking about the person to be defended. Brian instead has taken to “offense” – attacking me and threatening me. This will not look good in a court of law. Being the son of a highly successive attorney doesn’t seem to have helped Brian very much. I suggest that he pay less attention to Ruth’s life, who has a successful career, and pay attention to Brian’s life, which seems to be lacking in – hell, I don’t know – why DOES he need to come sniffing at my life? He needs a hobby.something to occupy his mind. sigh, perhaps I should be flattered that he keeps showering me with so much attention.

7. RuthMay 16, 2013

it occurs to me, that the police, law enforcement agencies and a court of law will also be questioning as to why a man has devoted so much time and energy to a woman he doesn’t know, never met, nor ever spoken to. They will wonder why he “knows” a “deep dirty secret” of that woman and why he is threatening her to expose it. Brian is skating on thin ice – this is called stalking and harassing.

TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN – CHIEFLY RUSSELL THOMAS, PUPPET OF JOAN WHEELER May 14, 2013

Posted by Ruth in Announcements and updates, Joan Wheeler's abuse and harassment of her birth family.
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altho this is a family matter between Joan and me, and really not anyone’s business – it was JOAN who first went public with our family story and naming the Three Sippel Sisters on the internet in Sept. 2008. Then in Oct – Nov 2009 on the ABC news website article “Adoptees face sting of discriminiation.” In several comments to that article, Joan LIED about circumstances involving the Sippel family, of which SHE IS NOT A LEGAL MEMBER. Within weeks of that – she published her book – which not only contained many slanderous statements about me – but she left MANY clues as to MY identity. – These points were all discussed on this blog and I won’t get into here. –

Since JOAN first brought a private family matter into the public arena – I decided to erect this blog – once Joan wrote that book and went on several websites to promote it – she left herself open to full disclosure.

It has been said that there are two sides to every story – Joan told her story in her book, on her website, and on many other internet sites. This blog, is my side of the story. I back my side of the story up with actual court and police documents – I provide proof of what I say.

I am a human being. If someone tells a lie about me, or threatens me in any way – I have the right to defend myself. – Joan has done this. She has lied about me in that book – the book that she maintains is the truth. I have submitted the actual court documents that proved that what Joan put in the book was false. I did not need to pressure the publisher – Joan signed a contract with Trafford, saying that what was in the book was the truth. I submitted court documents that showed she signed the contract under false pretenses. Hence her book was killed. That’s not my fault – that’s Joan’s fault. If her little freinds want to keep on believing her lies – that’s ok with me. BUT – her little friends have no right to bully me. Now go away- as I said – this is between Joan and me – you have no business commenting on MY life. I never met you Russ or met Brian – don’t know you guys. WHY are you commenting on MY life? You guys stuck yourself into my life – I didn’t ask for you to – but I am telling you now – GET OUT – YOU ARE NOW CONSIDERED AS TO BREAKING THE LAW BY HARASSING ME, THREATENING ME.

ONE OF JOAN’S FRIENDS IS NOW TANGLED UP IN THE LEGALITIES OF THE SITUATION REGARDING A VIOLATION OF THE ORDER OF PROTECTION THAT WAS GRANTED TO ME BY THE FAMILY COURT OF BUFFALO ON JANUARY 24, 2013. Does the other buttinsky want to get involved in the court case? I only have to pay my lawyer once – and that has been taken care of.

1. rus623May 14, 2013

Ruth I have not commented on your life or mentioned you in over a year.  Please remove my name and let this matter between me and you to rest.

Rus

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RuthMay 14, 2013

it does not matter whether you have commented on my life or mentioned me via THIS blog in over a year – your bullying blog is still in existence – that means that every second of every hour of every day for the past year you HAVE been mentioning me. Remove the blog and yourself from my life. no more comments from you will be accepted – I have set my spam filters to reject you. I don’t want to see your name. I want only your COMPLETE withdrawal from this – which means TAKE DOWN YOUR BULLYING BLOG.

COMMENTS CLOSED TO THIS POST. GO AWAY PEST.

8:55pm – just got up from my nap and I see my stats up, up, up. Glad to know you’re reading Joan, Russ and Brian. have fun. for myself – I’m going to watch Dante’s Peak – Pierce Brosnan is so much more handsomer than Russ or Brian. And my hubby is waaay more interesting than the 3 of you combined. Have fun kiddies!

The waters are getting hot! Some want to get out of the water! May 13, 2013

Posted by gertmcqueen in Uncategorized.
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Gert here…

I’m placing a recent comment received and my return comment, here in another blog post so that they do not get lost. The comment was made on a reblogged post of mine, dated May 2, 2013, on Ruth’s blog. We are co-admin, so I can do this! Any further need to comment can be place on this post…
and if something happens where ‘comments are closed’ and I don’t know how to change that setting I shall ask Ruth to open them for THIS post. But…I see NO NEED for any further discussion on the topic.

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1. rus623 – May 13, 2013 [Edit]
Ruth, the other comment sections were closed so I write this here:
Please refrain from using my name in your posts as, I have not said one word to you or about you for over a year. I have washed my hands of y’all.

Rus Thomas

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2. gertmcqueen – May 13, 2013 [Edit]
Russ,
this is Gert answering your comment.
I’ll make this short and sweet!

NO CAN DO

While we appreciate that you have said nothing in a long time, the fact remains that that blog of yours, against us, never should have been put up in the first place! It is NOT OUR FAULT that your name is now forever linked to us! That blame falls squarely on Joan Wheeler, because she TOLD YOU lies about us!

You MUST REMOVE your blog against us, period! NO deals! NO promises!

We birthsiblings have been victimized by Joan Wheeler since 1974 and when she wrote a libelous book against us and family we were victimized AGAIN, and then victimized by many of Joan’s friends (that we don’t know). Those are facts. Your association with her is NOT OUR PROBLEM.

Removing your blog, that you created against us, would go along way towards solving the problem, that you did not create, but that Joan created. I don’t know why you got yourself into it and as far as I can see there is only one way to get out of it…REMOVE YOUR BLOG AGAINST US.

I am going to take both your comment and this comment of mine into a separate blog post

Ruth: I concur – if you have truly washed your hands of us all, then prove it – remove your bullying blog you have up. If you didn’t want to be mentioned in the past on this blog, you should not have left comments on it calling me a bitch.
but that is in the past – yes, you have not said anything, nor have I for a long time, but the fact remains – your blog remains.
by the way, your private medical info was plastered on the internet on Brian’s blog – he said last year you were battling cancer. I said nothing to that comment, nor to you. – nice friends you have there
Gert says that you did not create the problem, but you contributed to it two years ago. – do you always go around calling people you don’t know bitches? Then try to worm your way out of it by saying “i was only trying to help.”
Let me make this perfectly clear to you, to Brian, and to anyone else that Joan tries to manipulate into bullying me – THIS IS A FAMILY MATTER BETWEEN JOAN AND ME – ALL OTHERS BUTT OUT!

YOU, Rus took it upon YOURself, for whatever reason, to butt into a situation that was NOT your business. Now you are here trying to extricate yourself from it.

Remove your blog and go away.

Farewell Duchess – Jeanne Cooper, Katherine Chancellor of Young and the Restless has passed. May 8, 2013

Posted by Ruth in Uncategorized.
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Jeanne Cooper, who has played Katherine Chancellor on the soap The Young and the Restless since its beginning in 1973 has died today at the age of 84.

I had the pleasure of meeting Jeanne in 1978 when she appeared in a tour production of the play Plaza Suite, at the Shea’s Buffalo Theatre in Buffalo. She was very friendly and sweet. I will treasure the memory of meeting her.

Farewell Duchess.

The 33rd Annual Daytime Emmy Awards - Arrivals

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To make herself look like an important ‘activist’ Joan Wheeler misrepresents issues to the bioethics council! May 2, 2013

Posted by gertmcqueen in Uncategorized.
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LOOK BEHIND THE CURTAIN, EVERY TIME WHEN IT COMES TO JOAN WHEELER

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1. rus623 – May 13, 2013 [Edit]
Ruth, the other comment sections were closed so I write this here:
Please refrain from using my name in your posts as, I have not said one word to you or about you for over a year. I have washed my hands of y’all.

Rus Thomas

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2. gertmcqueen – May 13, 2013 [Edit]
Russ,
this is Gert answering your comment.
I’ll make this short and sweet!

NO CAN DO

While we appreciate that you have said nothing in a long time, the fact remains that that blog of yours, against us, never should have been put up in the first place! It is NOT OUR FAULT that your name is now forever linked to us! That blame falls squarely on Joan Wheeler, because she TOLD YOU lies about us!

You MUST REMOVE your blog against us, period! NO deals! NO promises!

We birthsiblings have been victimized by Joan Wheeler since 1974 and when she wrote a libelous book against us and family we were victimized AGAIN, and then victimized by many of Joan’s friends (that we don’t know). Those are facts. Your association with her is NOT OUR PROBLEM.

Removing your blog, that you created against us, would go along way towards solving the problem, that you did not create, but that Joan created. I don’t know why you got yourself into it and as far as I can see there is only one way to get out of it…REMOVE YOUR BLOG AGAINST US.

I am going to take both your comment and this comment of mine into a separate blog post

Reclaiming the Sippel-Herr Family Honor

It appears as if Joan is having some technical difficulties on her web site! For the moment this blog post is NOW the ONLY PLACE where one may see the contents of her ‘presentation’ to the The President’s Council on Bioethics, Washington, D.C., 2004.

UPDATE Dec 2015; as older posts are being seen I’m updating with links to my second blog and a Facebook page wherein I expose AGAIN the lies, fabrications and hate that Joan M Wheeler says about me and family. After the first book was pulled from publication by the publisher, May 2011, she has ‘self-published’ yet again, her ‘story’, NOW called ‘duped by adoption’. There is NOTHING in it for adoption reform, for she is totally against adoption and her two families. To learn more see…

https://gertmcqueen2.wordpress.com/

https://www.facebook.com/dupedbyadoption1

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Yep, she is very clever with crafting words, in the slight of hand of a…

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