What’s in the book? Besides personal propaganda BS, deliberate exploitation and exposure of two families? Another discussion topic! November 29, 2015Posted by gertmcqueen in Uncategorized.
Joan M Wheeler’s latest ‘revised’ nonsense titled, ‘Forbidden Family, My life as an adoptee duped by adoption’ is available on Amazon, in both e-book and now printed format. Big Deal! Neither will make Joan famous or rich. Why? Because she writes in a trashy manner and will only attract people who are into ‘reality type programing’. Real people can see right through the BS and see the trashy side of this person. That’s why there are ‘reviews’ and ‘comments’ to reviews and discussion topics. I do my best to tell the world about what’s IN THE BOOK.
These books also will NOT change anything in adoption reform! Why? Because they have NOTHING to do with any form of adoption reform or birth certificates.
Her continuation of publishing books has EVERYTHING to do with Joan’s personal hateful campaign against EVERYONE in both families! Joan hates adoption because she was adopted.
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Joan Mary Wheeler, duped by adoption, and being a life-long victim, would like to know where her relief, from long-term abuse, is; what is that remedy she’s looking for? November 29, 2015Posted by gertmcqueen in Uncategorized.
But as always she’s looking in the wrong places! Here, I present three wrong places.
There certainly are real problems with prolonged stresses of all kinds. It certainly takes a long time to get to a stage where healing can happen. But, a person must truly want the relief, for the remedies to work. Wishing and hoping and praying (something she doesn’t do) will NEVER be enough. A person MUST do concrete actions in order for the remedies to bring the relief.
One of the first things a person is told, when they are overwhelmed with troubles, is to STOP engaging in any and all news stories. Then they are told, and taught, how to relax and get in touch with their bodies so that the body can began to heal. Relaxation then allows the negative feelings to dissipate and be replaced with positive healing feelings/energies.
Joan knows this! She’s…
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In every life, including anti-adoption #adoptees, like Joan M Wheeler, some humor must fall… November 29, 2015Posted by gertmcqueen in Uncategorized.
…for without humor the follies of humans, and/or their complication of relationships, would be too much to bear!
Recently I heard a ‘novelty’ song, with quite an interesting tale. Wanting to know more about it, I found the following information and lyrics.
“I’m My Own Grandpa” (sometimes rendered as “I’m My Own Grandpaw“) is a novelty song written by Dwight Latham and Moe Jaffe, performed by Lonzo and Oscar in 1947, about a man who, through an unlikely (but legal) combination of marriages, becomes stepfather to his own stepmother — that is, tacitly dropping the “step-” modifiers, he becomes his own grandfather.
In the 1930s, Latham had a group, the Jesters, on network radio; their specialties were bits of spoken humor and novelty songs. While reading a book of Mark Twain anecdotes, he once found a paragraph in which Twain proved it would be possible for a man…
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birth family well remembers the harm that Hoksbergen and J.M. Wheeler have done to them November 15, 2015Posted by gertmcqueen in Uncategorized.
A lesson on Amazon’s automated printing & pricing via ‘my life as an adoptee, duped by adoption’ November 12, 2015Posted by gertmcqueen in Uncategorized.
if you haven’t been following Gert’s new blog and Facebook page, links in this post, you are missing a lot of great stuff
Yep that’s Joan M Wheeler’s latest title of the same old story of her garbage life. Which, by the way, has NOTHING to do with adoption reform or activism. Whatever WAS related to those IMPORTANT topics, for adoptees, that was in the first edition of ‘forbidden family’ are now GONE from this new and improved… is there a barf bag handy?…story of her life! That means both the e-book and the printed versions of her hate-manifesto are just her narcissistic ramblings.
And as we know…that’s why NO MAINSTREAM ADOPTEE BOOK LIST HAS HER BOOK. She’s doing this all on her own.
But this post is about HOW Amazon’s automatic system works to get people to BUY a PRINTED book.
I purchased the printed book on Nov 5, 2015. Once my payment authorization, for the ‘store card’, was approved, (that took a bit of time) I noted, on the Amazon’s site…
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There are many real and right reasons for the institution of adoption; regardless of what Joan M Wheeler, duped by adoption, thinks. November 5, 2015Posted by gertmcqueen in Uncategorized.
Joan dislikes it when she is ‘painted’ or ‘tainted’ by certain cultural-social attitudes. But she has no problems using her own ‘painted and tainted’ views as she misrepresents and exploits her family! Talk about double-standards.
One example of her ‘double-standard is how she portrays herself, via Facebook, as ‘self-employed’. Joan has NEVER been ‘self-employed’. She has only started to use that ‘term’ since 2014, once she got her ‘revised’ version of her first garbage book into e-book format. She fancies herself as a writer! She is on NY State disability because she has never learned to get over her hate and rage of being adopted. She used to describe herself as a social-worker, but of course she has NEVER held a job as one and we, the birth-sibs, have been telling everyone that she is NOT a social worker. So, that’s the reasons behind her being ‘self-employed’!
After the following…
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Joan M Wheeler, duped by adoption, loves to tell her horrible story of adoption, but ONLY on her terms! November 4, 2015Posted by gertmcqueen in Uncategorized.
For Joan’s narcissistic delusional belief, that her adoption, is of the ‘great stuff’ of what’s wrong with adoption, that it MUST be told, for if known, it would change adoption in the world…talk about delusions!
Before I continue with the discussion/topic of this post I want to add an update. I have a new blog and a second Facebook page devoted to Joan’s new revision of her garbage book. They both are titled… duped by adoption, a book study, an in-depth analyzes of the book Forbidden Family My Life as an Adoptee Duped by Adoption and the author’s first book Forbidden Family
Please check them out…NOW TO CONTINUE
The following comes from a discussion thread, of Sept 2010, on the Adult Adoptees Advocating for Change forum. On this forum many angry adoptees vocalize their HATRED of all things adoption, as well as, in a few rare cases, how they…
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